I agree. You are 17. If it's not working out now, it never will. It only gets worse from here and the truth is that you really have no idea what you want out of life, much less a life partner. You think you do, but fact is you enjoy being with her *NOW* and "NOW" will chage multiple times as you get older and so will what you look for in a mate.

You are young, don't look for a wife, look to stack up multiple booty calls.

 

You'll go through a lot of girls at your age who you think are "the one." Just have fun, learn about the qualities you like in each one, and try not to worry about the future so much.

Good luck.

 

Very well said!!

 

MOve on.

Go to college.

Have lots of relationships physical and emotional alike

Mature.

Then find "the one".

 

step #1. come back to the thread you started to see advice.
step #2. follow advice
step #3. if advice doesnt work, try to get back with her again so you feel like crap again, then repeat step #1.

honestly.. you have major trust issues. which isn't the best thing to have in a relationship...

no trust = no relationship.

true story.

 

I hate to say it since I've been in your shoes before and did not like it, but she's not going to be the one you will spend the rest of your life with. By the time your roughly in your mid 20's, you'll find that girl you've been looking for and all will be right in the universe. My advise to you is, don't get so attached at this point in your life.

 

I'm going to have to agree with most everyone else, she probably isn't the one. Life is about change, and in a general sense, you'll change less and less as you get older, no one could fault you or her for changing exactly what you want at your young age, it's a natural process.

Also, keep in mind, people act certain ways when they have a fear of losing something because of love. If you two were apart for such a short time, and you really cared so much about each other, why did you see other people?

I read something on this very board once that struck me as some of the truest words I'd ever read. They were in a thread about knowing which one (girl) is actually "The One". Simply put, many members agreed that "The One" was actually the one that thinks you are.

 

One word of advice.... RUN

get as far away from the serious relationship as you can! Your only 17 don't through your life away, you'll be missing out on plenty simply by not being able to be 2 places at once, but to have a wifey at that age, dude just run do yourself a favor, you'll be happier person in the end and willl have great stories and experiences to look back on

 

Move on, you'll go through a lot of changes in the next few years..

 

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