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Like some one else said, live it up while you can. After you finish school, buy a house and then think about settling down

 

Just kidding!

Jesus, 17? When I was 17, I didn't even know what my penis was for.

 

I figured it out when I was 15... LOL

 

I've been in your shoes... And lemme tell ya... Just let go... You'll feel bad for a couple of days but you'll get over it... I got over it when I met another hot chick I had a chance with! ;p

 

I'm only 21 so I was in your place not too long ago. Here's the best advice I can give you...

Bookmark this tread and save it on your computer.

Go do whatever you think you should do with the girl (breakup, get together).

Come back to the tread in a few months and slap yourself on the forehead for being such a weak fool.

 

17 + in love + in high school + with same girl for 2 years + break up = best thing that's happened to you. Wait 'til you go to college. It's more like, different girls every 3-4 months, and that's your experimental years, all that fun and SPRING BREAK!

Also, there seems to be a trust issue now, so definitely move on. If you can't trust 'em, you really can't trust 'em. Oh, and trust me on this one, you CANNOT change people no matter what you do, so don't bother trying. It's kinda like that once a cheat always a cheat, and you'll be thinking about that all the time or at least you'll have that in back of you mind somewhere at all times, and that's no way to have a relationship.

Listen, isht happens and it happens for a reason. You really DO need to experience life. Here's my story, see if you can relate.
I was 19 or 20 and with the same girl for almost 6-7 years, she became my best friend. Before her, I was dating different girls every 3-4 months. My buddies told me I had a seasonal girlfriend because they changed with the seasons. Anyhow, after I met this particular one, I thought she was it. So, I popped the big question. She said yes, and we were engaged for 2 years. Why 2 years, her choice. Well, end of the second year, we had major problems. We had different needs. We both grew up, were out of college and now were professionals. Broke my heart. But now, 2 years later, I'm engaged again to someoneelse. She knew my situation and yet she wanted to get married. So, it'll all workout at the end.

Also, what would've happened if you guys were married and then this came up? Divorce, kids, etc. My buddy did that, and that wasn't so pleasant. Paying alimony, child support, only seeing his kids every now and then, etc.

See, the problem is when you're in love and something goes wrong you think it's the end of the world. And it may seem that way at that time, but you got to move on. And once you do, you'll be surprised who you'll end up with. At least you got an experience out of it and you'll do better with your next relationship.

Good luck and cheer up!

 

Dump her, move on... lots of world and women to experience.

 

That was beautiful!

 

Dude,
She is acting weird for reason..... She is probably still seeing the other guy on the side..... Women are weird when it comes to relationships.... they will be patient with their partner till a certain point and then dramatically change right then and there.... Guys are more gradual......
Seems to me you have a case of the first love syndrome..... If you really love her, confront her immediately.... just tell her everything.... If she is the one for you then most probably she will understand, if not just move on..... and remember getting back with a person that you broke up with is never good.... once its done its done.....

Beroz