should couples be able to see eachothers fb accounts?
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well guys i just finished talking to her right now, i confronter her about it. she said that fb contacted her and urged her to change her password, because apparently someone in NY was trying to get into her fb account. so she changed or slightly modified her password its still the same but it just has an extra letter. she said she was going to tell me about this, but she forgot to. fb contacted her yesterday. now i dont know how often random people try to break into someone elses fb account for no apparent reason but i gave her the benefit of the doubt and believed her.
btw whats up with the codependency? am i the codependent one since i want to log into her fb or is she the codependent one for giving me her fb info?
dumbfounded...
btw whats up with the codependency? am i the codependent one since i want to log into her fb or is she the codependent one for giving me her fb info?
dumbfounded...
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Originally Posted by Angelfire' timestamp='1316059958' post='20974710
well guys i just finished talking to her right now, i confronter her about it. she said that fb contacted her and urged her to change her password, because apparently someone in NY was trying to get into her fb account. so she changed or slightly modified her password its still the same but it just has an extra letter. she said she was going to tell me about this, but she forgot to. fb contacted her yesterday. now i dont know how often random people try to break into someone elses fb account for no apparent reason but i gave her the benefit of the doubt and believed her.
btw whats up with the codependency? am i the codependent one since i want to log into her fb or is she the codependent one for giving me her fb info? dumbfounded...
btw whats up with the codependency? am i the codependent one since i want to log into her fb or is she the codependent one for giving me her fb info?
dumbfounded...They will contact you.
They want to take your info, not let someone else make money on it.
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I would go on her facebook and make a status update, "I like it when my bf PIIMB." And then you can monitor which of her girlfriends does a "like" and then if your relationship doesn't workout, you know where to go next 
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I stay away from facebook for good reason. I am very consciences about facebook drama and the activity level the women I get seriously involved with have with it. I really prefer to be involved with someone who doesn’t have a facebook account all together. Harder to find these days it seems. 
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All of her friends like it, some just don't know it yet.
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Originally Posted by Angerman' timestamp='1316104637' post='20975649
I would go on her facebook and make a status update, "I like it when my bf PIIMB." And then you can monitor which of her girlfriends does a "like" and then if your relationship doesn't workout, you know where to go next
bummer. but that would be a good status update im sure it would get alot of what is PIIMB ? dumb bitche$... >.>
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I stay away from facebook for good reason. I am very consciences about facebook drama and the activity level the women I get seriously involved with have with it. I really prefer to be involved with someone who doesn’t have a facebook account all together. Harder to find these days it seems.
I know that would be ideal, but nowadays its the norm to have one. she told me that she wanted to delete it, i just went with it and told her if thats what she wants to do then go ahead. but i think am going to be more affirmative and tell her that i dont have one, so therefore she shouldnt have one either. causes relationship problems, i truly dread going into her fb for some reason...
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I know that would be ideal, but nowadays its the norm to have one. she told me that she wanted to delete it, i just went with it and told her if thats what she wants to do then go ahead. but i think am going to be more affirmative and tell her that i dont have one, so therefore she shouldnt have one either. causes relationship problems, i truly dread going into her fb for some reason...
She's asking you to take charge, but on her terms. That's f@#ked up. Grow a pair, remind her you don't have a FB page, and that's that.