Is that how you found Mrs. Raj?

 

Actually George, yes it is

 

Dude, you're 23. (Think you mentioned this in the other thread) It sounds to me like you're still getting over your last relationship. Dating isn't always easier for straight people either, there are so many factors that come into play.

It sounds like you have a lot going for you, why stress out about dating/not dating right now? I mean you say you're not looking, but you're obviously unhappy about something. Are you thinking that you might not find that special someone to spend your life with?

FWIW, although I have no clue what the gay dating scene is really like, there are a LOT of attractive, athletic, highly-educated, career-oriented gay folks here in San Francisco. Whether they're too "ghey" for you or not, I wouldn't know.

 

As said already, don't look at the numbers... all it will do is make an already overwhelming subject overwhelimg. Dating sucks for straight guys too. While we might have more choices to pull from, and easier, that doesn't mean it's any more/less frustrating. We've got 96x more stupid people to weed through.

 

Where is Bear?

 

I was living at the beach in Marina del Rey and Mrs. Raptor and her roommate, after spending a summer in Europe, moved in next door.

 

WOW! I am impressed by the mature responses. I was waiting for bunch of dumb "ghey" jokes.

It seems like you have a full plate. Focus on those things - work, school, working out, bartend, cars. You are only 23 - you have sooooo much time left. Don't worry about it and focus on your hobbies/career/school. Somebody will come along.

 

Yous talking to me, Ford boi?

 

Agree with maybe San Francisco or someplace other than Florida? The one thing that seems to hold true is that friends of friends can be a big source of potential future relationships. So keep your chin up and make lots of friends who might introduce you to someone.

If all else fails... lower your standards. Just kidding... kind of.

But seriously, good luck and stay positive!

 

Agreed. Not to stereotype, but the gay community as far as I've seen takes care of themselves much more then straight women. Even though at college I'll see hundreds of women a day, I honestly see maybe 2 that I'd even consider dating. And that's before they open their mouths, after that maybe one a week.