Ryne, I wouldnt be down on yourself, Maybe you should enjoy your single life for a while. Since youve just got out of such a serious relationship you may want to go out and have a good time for a while. Date a few people but nothing serious for the time being since youre most likely not ready for that yet.
As for me, I cant find a nice chick to save my life. Im attractive, great style, and fun, yet every hot girl i know dates total douchebags. I havent been on a date in forever since im at work or school. I would like to find a girl I could be serious with since it seems like every one ive ever cared for turned out to be a skank.

 

That inexplicably reminded me of this:

 

awesome ckit! so true haha

rnye all i can say is that u r extra hot, and since we're going with stats, u can have any dude out of the xx,000 u want.......

if you were fat, ugly, 'ghey', the percentage of the small available percentage that would want to be with you would be miniscule.

point is, you have the best math on your side. travel north ill find u something

btw, the 240

 

You're 23, and you were in a 5+ year relationship.

This ain't a gay thing, and this ain't a straight thing. It's a guy-in-his-early-twenties thing.

Go out there, and do what you like. You shouldn't be worrying about finding one special guy, or a life partner, at all. You don't have to run around with your pride flag and hump everything out there, but you shouldn't be so singularly focused either.

Back Lot rules apply here: Disregard men, acquire currency.

Show up, be excellent, get phone numbers, and then leave so that you leave the boys wanting more. You can either be hunted, or hunt. You've got your shit way too together to have rules dictated to you. Grab life by the nuts, and don't apologize.

 

Thanks for all the replies, seriously..

Ckit, Justind, Teanz.. and especially 8D...

 

You can easily email Dan Savage too if you have anything on your mind too. Im sure he would have said DTMF a while ago, or confront or leave.

With the context of thought, that we shouldnt need to find long term relationships at a young age. What? I dont wanna be 60+ years old when my kids are graduating school. My parents met at 17 and 19, and are still together. I really do believe no matter the age, it is possible to find a life partner.

 

I'm having the trouble in the "finding that person" type of business. It sucks. I am only 20 years old but I feel like I am so far behind everybody else my age...I am not looking for randoms...just need that one.

I know its a struggle man, sometimes I'm really motivated. Sometimes I want to give up. People always say...don't worry...it will happen. But none of us really know. I really liked one member's advice that said just go along for the ride. I too have a master plan that means nothing.

 

As for me, I cant find a nice chick to save my life. Im attractive, great style, and fun, yet every hot girl i know dates total douchebags

This! Not even hot girls...any girl with a good personality/pretty/ect.

The thing that lets me know they are douche's are

A. I hear them complain about them LOL

B. I know how guys think and see what they do when their girls are not around.

It's funny seeing status's on facebook about girls and guys saying "nice guys finish last" "cant find a nice guy"

When both of these people sleep with everyone they know. No offense if anyone here does that...but its like...what do you expect?

 

welcome to the real world

 

^ Most women "wake up" as they age. Money and stability become more important than having the best looking douche nozzle. Unfortunately this doesn't happen until they are in their 30's