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From: WHICHICA!!
sleeping with a married person while you are single and having your spouse cheat on you when you are married are unrelated. some of you guys have to start making that distinction
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There is no distinction to the guy that is married to her.
Pray tell, what exactly is the distinction? You're still boinking somebody's spouse. It'd be worse if you were married as well (I realize you're not) since that'd just be messing with yet another person, but I fail to see your point. You're only distinguishing between "really bad" and "really really bad". There is no "good" in this equation.
What're you looking for - bragging rights? What exactly are you looking to do? Get laid? Break up their relationship? Marry her yourself? Have a three month stand? Tell everyone on the web about your relationship?
Seriously, what are you getting out of it that would cause you to consider jeapordizing someone's marriage to that point?
I know she's coming onto you so there are obviously some issues in the relationship as it stands right now. Still, you're playing with fire.
Pray tell, what exactly is the distinction? You're still boinking somebody's spouse. It'd be worse if you were married as well (I realize you're not) since that'd just be messing with yet another person, but I fail to see your point. You're only distinguishing between "really bad" and "really really bad". There is no "good" in this equation.
What're you looking for - bragging rights? What exactly are you looking to do? Get laid? Break up their relationship? Marry her yourself? Have a three month stand? Tell everyone on the web about your relationship?
Seriously, what are you getting out of it that would cause you to consider jeapordizing someone's marriage to that point?
I know she's coming onto you so there are obviously some issues in the relationship as it stands right now. Still, you're playing with fire.
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From: Hockeytown!!!
Originally Posted by scotchtape,Nov 17 2004, 03:28 PM
sleeping with a married person while you are single and having your spouse cheat on you when you are married are unrelated.
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Originally Posted by Kekoa,Nov 16 2004, 04:37 PM
Here is something to consider:
This actually happened to my friend so its a true story. Several weeks ago, he was at a hotel having a few drinks with a girl and another couple after a school workshop. To make a long story short, my friend and the girl fuct after getting totally drunk. Everything was fine, but did I tell you my friend was married??? Oh and the girl he had sex with was an out of towner who also had a boyfriend. My friend and her began e-mailing each other for a few weeks just chatting and kind of hinting towards what had happened at the hotel. The girl didn't really remember much, but my friend remembered everything
. Needless to say, about a week after the ordeal at the hotel, my friend's wife calls him sobbing and tells him to get his ass home right away. My friend had no idea what was happening or why his wife was crying. Come to find out, the girl's boyfriend that my friend slept with began intercepting the e-mails that my friend was sending and replying to. He was able to somehow find out my friend's wive's name and place of work. He actually had the nerve to send her a memo and copies of the e-mails to her place of work ratting my friend out. To make things worse, he actually timed the receipt of the letter on the day of my friend's 2 yr anniversary. 
This actually happened to my friend so its a true story. Several weeks ago, he was at a hotel having a few drinks with a girl and another couple after a school workshop. To make a long story short, my friend and the girl fuct after getting totally drunk. Everything was fine, but did I tell you my friend was married??? Oh and the girl he had sex with was an out of towner who also had a boyfriend. My friend and her began e-mailing each other for a few weeks just chatting and kind of hinting towards what had happened at the hotel. The girl didn't really remember much, but my friend remembered everything
. Needless to say, about a week after the ordeal at the hotel, my friend's wife calls him sobbing and tells him to get his ass home right away. My friend had no idea what was happening or why his wife was crying. Come to find out, the girl's boyfriend that my friend slept with began intercepting the e-mails that my friend was sending and replying to. He was able to somehow find out my friend's wive's name and place of work. He actually had the nerve to send her a memo and copies of the e-mails to her place of work ratting my friend out. To make things worse, he actually timed the receipt of the letter on the day of my friend's 2 yr anniversary. 
HAHAAHAHA!!
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Originally Posted by scotchtape,Nov 17 2004, 09:17 AM
i dont want a relationship with this woman guys. I simply was curious about developing a sexual relationship with her. But I havent decided yet but even if I did I don't think the ball is in my court anymore cause last time I saw her she seemd standoffish and kept apologizing for being so drunk that night we kissed. Anyways, we are all going out tomorrow for drinks and such so we'll see what develops or if she realizes what she did was a mistake and it all falls flat.