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[QUOTE=EssTooKayTD,Nov 17 2004, 07:33 AM] I couldn't read though all the "holier than thou" posts...
Plain and simple, don't push the envelope, but if she comes on to you, do what you gotta.
Plain and simple, don't push the envelope, but if she comes on to you, do what you gotta.
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Tritium,
Stop being so dramatic. Geez, you people act like this shit never happens. It's rare when I read a news article that says man shot wife's lover. Married people cheating on each other happens all the time. And I GUARANTEE half of those couples don't split up. They get counseling. Nobody gets shot or beat up. And the couples STAY together.
If you won't treat your spouse the way you ought too, somebody else will.
Stop being so dramatic. Geez, you people act like this shit never happens. It's rare when I read a news article that says man shot wife's lover. Married people cheating on each other happens all the time. And I GUARANTEE half of those couples don't split up. They get counseling. Nobody gets shot or beat up. And the couples STAY together.
If you won't treat your spouse the way you ought too, somebody else will.
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Originally Posted by erik,Nov 17 2004, 11:36 AM
Tritium,
Stop being so dramatic. Geez, you people act like this shit never happens. It's rare when I read a news article that says man shot wife's lover. Married people cheating on each other happens all the time. And I GUARANTEE half of those couples don't split up. They get counseling. Nobody gets shot or beat up. And the couples STAY together.
If you won't treat your spouse the way you ought too, somebody else will.
Stop being so dramatic. Geez, you people act like this shit never happens. It's rare when I read a news article that says man shot wife's lover. Married people cheating on each other happens all the time. And I GUARANTEE half of those couples don't split up. They get counseling. Nobody gets shot or beat up. And the couples STAY together.
If you won't treat your spouse the way you ought too, somebody else will.
A man I knew most of my life was stabbed to death in May 2000 over another man's wife that he just had to sleep with. These were educated, affluent, middle-aged people with grown kids---the kind of people you would have GUARANTEED would have simply gotten counseling.
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I'd have to agree with erik that most instances of cheating do not end violently.
Still, no one can guarantee that that will be true in this case. Likewise, no one can guarantee that it will end violently. It's all speculation.
As long as the original poster understands the risks and has no moral conflicts over this, I still say to go for it. You've got one life in which to live it up; don't spend it in fear of what may or may not happen.
Still, no one can guarantee that that will be true in this case. Likewise, no one can guarantee that it will end violently. It's all speculation.
As long as the original poster understands the risks and has no moral conflicts over this, I still say to go for it. You've got one life in which to live it up; don't spend it in fear of what may or may not happen.
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Originally Posted by tritium_pie,Nov 17 2004, 11:31 AM
if you think the husband is going to say to himself, "that homeboy wasn't coming onto my wife... he's not the homewrecker... he just f*cked her (even though he knew she was married)..."
wrong.
that husband will FLIP OUT... and the homeboy who dared to poke his wife is gonna GET HIS ASS SHOT.
sure he'll be hating on his wife too for cheating on him, but he damn sure as hell will save a bit o hate for the homeboy who f*cked her.
wrong.
that husband will FLIP OUT... and the homeboy who dared to poke his wife is gonna GET HIS ASS SHOT.
sure he'll be hating on his wife too for cheating on him, but he damn sure as hell will save a bit o hate for the homeboy who f*cked her.
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I'm with munckee on this one - you'd have to be sick to consider this, much less encourage it. Actually, I'll take it a step further - you're a complete and utter idiot if you're condoning someone sleeping with somebody else's spouse. That blows my mind, how many people said "Do it!".
Bah. Someday it'll happen to you (on the receiving end instead of the giving end) and then you'll wonder why you ever encouraged someone to do it.
Bah. Someday it'll happen to you (on the receiving end instead of the giving end) and then you'll wonder why you ever encouraged someone to do it.