you should tell her that cheating on her husband is wrong, and start reciting bible quotes

 

I'm sorry, but this was too good to pass up.

 

What goes around comes around....

And you, my friend, do not want to be on the receiving end of that!

 

yep...i 100% agree with you on this... don't blame the other guy for screwing your wife, but blame your wife for allowing the other guy to screw her.

 

that's assuming there is really such a thing as karma. the bottom line is that if and when scotchtapes significant other cheats on him, it will be completely independent of what he decides to do in this particular senario. the bottom line is that sh!t will happen to you regardless of how righteously you live your life.

if i found out my gf/wife cheated on me, i would just dump/divorce her and make sure she gets virtually nothing in the divorce settlement. i am not going to go all crazy and angry over it. the bottom line is that if my significant other cheats on me, then there's really no way to reconcile and remain together and so why waste the time and energy to get all worked up over it. ultimately, it is my significant other's pesonal choice whether to be faithful to me or not, and if she chooses to be unfaithful, then the consequence of that decision is that i would no longer want to maintain a relationship with her. the bottom line is that i do not own my gf/wife. she is free to make whatever decision she wants, only that every decision she makes will have its own particular consequences.

 

Hmm....well I will tell you this, I did NOT regret what i did. B/c the relationship lasted so long, love was experienced on both of our parts. Now before you guys go and make judgements about me, the woman was being used like a rag (by her hubby) and abused.....emotionally and physically. She was trapped, terrified of her husband, who litterally ruled her life. She had thoughts of suicide and of killing him. In those dark times, she could only seek solice from me as a friend, a confidant, and later as a lover.

One of the female poster's hit the nail on the head, most women cheat as a cry of help. And I am telling you, she will end up falling in love with you. If you are not prepared to deal with that scenario don't do it, b/c you will get caught. And opnce that happens, who knows how he will act. If you have too.....absolutely, follow the guidelines I wrote b4 to the LETTER.....you don't want to end up as a statistic.

kkyntmoon-I can understand your reaction, but it's always important to hear both sides of the story.

Anyway goodluck!

Tell us what happens!

 

if I was on a jury and a husband was on trial because he killed, maimed, or otherwise brutally f*cked up some guy because of cheating...

I would argue STRONGLY that it was temporary insanity, or whatever the defense attorney said, and fight and fight and fight to acquit him.

marriage wrecking???

 

Tritium,

You are NUTS! You don't get to kill people because you are upset about another person's actions. It's not insanity, it's stupidity.

I'm sure most of us have been cheated on before in our lives. Was it upsetting? Sure. Did it suck? Yes. Did you want to hurt someone? Possibly. But I bet 95% of us just moved on and dealt with it without "killing" someone. Give me a break.

There are a lot of righteous people on this board. I'm stunned by all the people that are calling the guy a homewrecker and such. The homewrecker is the WOMAN!!! She would have to make the decision to cheat on her husband. The guy asking the question is just the instrument. Nothing more, nothing less. Remember, if you have a significant other that cheats on you, it's definitely not the other person's fault. It's your significant other's fault. And the only people you have a right being upset with are YOU or your significant other.

Wow, and for the poster that had the question. Do as you feel is right. But make sure you understand what you are getting into. Understand that emotions could run very high on your part and the woman's. It's a dangerous game to play just on the emotional level. What happens if you fall for her, or she falls for you? Can you handle it? Can you handle if the husband does find out and wants to "beat you up"? If you ask yourself a lot of these type of questions and if you answer NO to any of them. Go find a single girl.

ERIK

 

[QUOTE=erik,Nov 16 2004, 04:22 PM] Tritium,

You are NUTS!

 

yea dude but you dont think a person who is goiing to cheat will find another person to cheat with if that first one was not willing? it is completely the person who is cheating's fault