Haha, spoken like a true gentleman

 

Home wrecker.

Don't do it, unless you don't care about getting a good beating or worse, when the hubby finds out and he will.

 

Married = Not a good idea. You're asking for trouble going down that path

If she just had a boyfriend, sure, it's something I'd consider given the right circumstances.

 

Just do it like Nike! Life is too short to give a crap. In fifty years or so, we'll all be dead anyway, and it will all be irrelevant. At least you won't have the regret of having passed on a nice wild sexual escapade! You don't get too many of those in life.

In all honesty, frankly, it sounds like you've already made your decision. It shouldn't matter at all what a bunch of strangers think.

 

Just to reiterate, she does NOT have any children.

Anyways, I saw her at lunch today and she apologized on how she acted on Friday night. Specifically she said "Im sorry, I was sooo drunk". What the hell does that mean? Does she feel bad what happened and does not want it to go any further or was she only trying to save face? Should I never hang out with her again? The thing that I keep thinking about is that night she was bitching to me that she had a conversation with her husband recently about how he must bang prostitutes while away on business. I know that doesn't make it right for her to cheat on him too. Plus her husband is like 45 I think and she is 30 or so, so I am assuming she is not getting satisfaction at home anyways. Oh and the funny thing is during our Friday night out we were talking about her husband being away for so long and I told her that someone should get her an industrial stength vibrator and she just smiled and said she could think of something better. But to tell you the truth, it would be soooo nice to just get regular BJ's or something for the next two to three months. I mean I haven't been too fortunate in the playing field for the past few months anyways because I havent gotten laid for quite a while now so I guess my penis is the one that is doing the thinking for me. I was really thinking about just doing it but some of the insights I have read fron you guys is really making me think otherwise. Shit, why do you guys have to be so damn moral?

 

guns don't kill people, husbands who come home early do.

 

Outside of work...yes. Now you're catching on.

 

The answer is obvious, if you don't have the sense to do what is right. I absolutly have nothing else to say.

-Alan

 

Think of it this way. If you think that having sex with a married person is ok, that means you wouldn't have that problem when you are married. what would you say to your wife, "honey, how many girls have you been with, and who are they." um.. this married lady.. that is going to go over well. you know what they say, once a cheater, always a cheater. Same thing with what you are doing.

It doesn't matter that the marriage is already falling apart, she is still technically married, and thus, off limits. Would you still have the same interest in her if she wasn't married? Why don't you just talk to her about leaving her husband? and if she does.. by all means, go for it.

 

I would have the same interest if she was or wasnt married because she is a cool person and is very pretty. I definately dont want her to leave her husband and it doesnt even remotely sound like she wants to leave him. She just wants to get her groove on. And I am not cheating on anyone so to tell me once a cheater always a cheater doesnt really apply to me. It might apply to her because she is the one that wanted to cheat on her husband. I would def not like it if someone sleeps with my wife but then again, the affair would be my wife's fault and not the other guys.