Here's my situation. I suck when it comes to girls. I guess I just don't have any self-confidence because I've been turned down one too many times. There is this girl who I work with, who I find kind of cute. Recently, I've been finding myself talking to her more and more when I'm at work, but it's just casual conversation.

Tonight I was talking with another co-worker who is a bit older, and he said that he would "set me up with her". I didn't know what to say, so I said fine. He said he needed 2 days. So what exactly does this mean? What will he do and what am I supposed to do? Just so we're clear, I'm not interested in a one night stand type of deal, I'm interested in a relationship, but nothing serious.

 

He will probaby drop some basic hints she's got an admirer.

She'll like all women bite and get excited. He'll have mad sure pre and post the your in with some type of chance.

Be yourself

Good luck brother

 

yea, and pretend to have confidence. Act like you don't care too much.

Unfortunately it's hard. You actually have to stop caring.

 

it's called sloppy seconds!

 

The guy is married, so he's not interested

 

hehe you make it sound like he's gettin u a whore for the night

 

^ LOL.

in which case be a demon!

 

lol the ad right now is for "The magazine where all asian women connect".

oh yea, good luck

 

Claw, get yourself a new set of grill for your teeth. That'll impress her.

 

Dating coworkers is dangerous man.

Don't sh!t where you eat man.

If you do go out with her, then she breaks your heart (or you break hers), and you have to look at her ass everyday...you will have an extremely high level of stress at work. Especially if she breaks your heart and has the nerve to talk / act in a way that she's kind of rubbing it in.

I sound bitter huh? It kinda happened to me, and man it sucked so bad...