Tak - if I am so wrong, then why is this thread even here? I did state that a bit harsh, apologies... just wish more guys would realize how hard they make things for themselves.

 

takes him 2 days for the loan to clear.. LoL jk!!

 

Mate I can't answer that.

I hear you on the point guys do make things harder. Wonder why this is so. Some decent guys missing out because they are hesitant.

Apologies for the prick remark

 

I'm hesitant because I've been turned down one too many times. I guess it ruined my self-confidence. I'd much rather not ask in the first place then ask and get a no.

 

You need to learn to read womens signals a bit more.

Guess it depends on where you approach and so forth blah blah blah.

I only approach ones I know are checking me.

 

I cannot stress this enough

Even if you feel like you're about to piss your pants and need to bail; Present yourself like you're got the biggest dick in the world (not literally). Women love confidence.

 

lol i get turned down at least 25 times any time i got out. but then again, i have learned to love it. i thrive under awkwardness. and consider it an accomplishment if the girl pushes me away (even better if its a face shove). i have seen it all, the cold shoulder, the quick 180, the fat friend barrier, u just gotta remember, that nobody bats .500.

 

That's why trainwreck is the guy you see and go, wow, how did he ever get such a good catch... gotta play the game if you want to ever win.

 

i love your way of thinking. some guys just need to be a man about things and suck it. rejection is a part of life. i get rejected all the time, but then again, i also score a lot too. it's just a numbers game and DON't take these things personally, you don't know who the hell these strangers that you approach are. Just move on.

Here is my personally strategy, approach all the hot girls you can. learn to deal with the rejection, once in a while you get a nibble. that nibble turns into a bite, you reel her in, bang her, and toss her back in the ocean for another fisherman.

*one of my personal favorites in terms of rejection was getting a nice drink thrown at me at a club while all her male friends were watching. i simply went up to her and gave her the ole' face shove myself, needless to say i was kicked out fairly quick after that.

 

thats one back for the men of this world!

PS I hope you pulled a ten in front of her also.