so pretty much this girl gave me her number today. i didnt ask for it. i was like wewt. i told her id call her tomorrow...is that a good idea or not? i know i should wait...thats why i said tomorrow...did i screw up? should i call now? or should i wait?

 

You haven't had any time to screw anything up yet! Take a deep breath, call her tomorrow. Good luck!

 

What one must be, given a phone number, asking members of a car forum for advice....



What the **** do you think she gave you the number for??

 

"You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?" - Swingers

Wait six days. Good luck man.

 

call her whenever you feel like calling her. Just make sure you have a plan to do something though. Don't call just to say hi. Sunday's are good days to call.

 

you told her you would call tom, i suggest calling then but have something in mind (like plans for a date, etc..). calling and just saying hi is stupid

 

Don't call tomorrow, but the day after. Tell her you were very busy if she asks why you didn't call, and joke about having time for her today if she wants to do something.

 

call her when you say you will call her, but if you do, make sure you have something planned. it doesn't have to be that night, can be for the weekend, but should call when you tell her you will call. no need to play like you are busy, or have girls lined up....

 

call her then hang up when she answers.

 

Speaking as the father of girls, if you haven't called her by that afternoon she will imagine all kinds of things about why you don't like her and then by the time you do call her she'll be in self preservation mode and will be completely over you.

She'll have made up so many scenarios about how you think she's
A. fat
B. ugly
C. whatever

and to justify you not calling as soon as you possibly could she, and her friends - she always talks to her friends, will have decided you're
A. Gay
B. A Jerk
C. Not good looking after all
D. Whatever

He who hesitates is lost. All that B.S. about playing it cool and showing her you're busy will just ensure you have another dateless weekend.

I sure wish I'd have known all that when I was dating. It would have made life a lot more fun!