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Old Jan 22, 2006 | 04:31 PM
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I met a girl out last week, spent the whole night out with her and I've spoken to her several times a day everyday since. Definitely not the norm and not what I'd suggest but this girl is really special so I just thought I'd come in here and brag
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Old Jan 22, 2006 | 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Moemers,Jan 21 2006, 04:47 PM
so pretty much this girl gave me her number today. i didnt ask for it. i was like wewt. i told her id call her tomorrow...is that a good idea or not? i know i should wait...thats why i said tomorrow...did i screw up? should i call now? or should i wait?
Any person versed in the rules of dating will tell you not to call her for 5 - 7 days. Sundays are good, don't leave a message. Don't talk on the phone for more than 5 minutes. Have a plan for a date (during the week) before you call. I can't stress making it a weekday date enough. Ask her out for a specific date at a specific time for a specific place. If she's busy that day she should offer up a day the she isn't busy, work from there. If she says yes, tell her it was great talking to here and you look forward to the X day and that you have to go. DON'T talk for a hour on the damn phone, you can only screw things up. If she doesn't make a counter offer then have a secondary day in mind. After that if she still says she's busy that day then tell here your booked the rest of the week. Honestly if you want real advice from a physcologist that knows what the hell he's talking about the go here www.askmen.com look for doc love articles, read the archives, study up on it, you don't need to buy what he's peddling because he says it all in his articles anyway. Don't be a pansy be confident and have a plan.
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Old Jan 22, 2006 | 06:14 PM
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www.askmen.com. Never lie, never act like somthing you're not just learn what works. and have fun.
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Old Jan 22, 2006 | 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted by s2000raj,Jan 21 2006, 07:56 PM
call her then hang up when she answers.
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Old Jan 22, 2006 | 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted by s2000raj,Jan 22 2006, 02:45 PM
now this thread is useless without pics.
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Old Jan 23, 2006 | 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted by dkhl,Jan 21 2006, 09:07 PM
call her when you say you will call her, but if you do, make sure you have something planned. it doesn't have to be that night, can be for the weekend, but should call when you tell her you will call. no need to play like you are busy, or have girls lined up....
I want a guy who will do what he says he's gonna do. If he can't make a simple phone call when he says he will, that's lame. Playing games is for high school. I also want a guy who isn't afraid to tell me what he wants. There are plenty of guys who are all wishy washy and never bother to ask a girl on a date. Those are the guys who get left behind. Good luck!
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Old Jan 23, 2006 | 07:57 AM
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Women have a tendency to say one thing but act on another.
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Old Jan 23, 2006 | 07:58 AM
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Women have a tendency to say one thing but act on another.

That's why women end up with men that they say they wouldn't want to be with all the time.
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Old Jan 23, 2006 | 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted by exceltoexcel,Jan 23 2006, 08:58 AM
Women have a tendency to say one thing but act on another.

That's why women end up with men that they say they wouldn't want to be with all the time.



"why can't I just meet a nice guy"

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Old Jan 23, 2006 | 08:18 AM
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They want a gentleMAN emphasis on Man not pansy not a yes boy but a man that has a sense of class. Nice guys tend to be nancy boys, you know the ones that shareall says won't approach a woman or will slobber all over her when they do.
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