Why do some girls do this?
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From: Ventura, California, USA
Originally Posted by GroovyNeilNeil,Aug 16 2007, 10:12 AM
So what do you do if you start ignoring the girl for about a month. No calls, texts, or anything. And then out of nowhere she texts you at 8:00AM saying "Good Morning." 
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Originally Posted by LEE72,Aug 15 2007, 08:37 PM
How old are you man? I think how old you and this girl are makes all the difference. Personally I don't believe in all the 3 day rule and playing the game bullshit.
Be straight up, and if you are interested in the girl, let her know. Call her and ask her out on a date. Go get coffee or a quick drink somewhere during the week. Do not ask her out for dinner or for a weekend date, that's much more of a commitment for either party. If she's interested, you'll know, if not, move on to the next one.
If she can't respond to you with maturity and common courtesy, she's not worth it. If you're just trying to get laid, you may choose to put up with some bullshit, but if you are looking for a real relationship, my personal experience has told me that the straight-up approach works best. Women like a guy with enough confidence to let her know what's up.
*edit* If you're trying to get laid, the straight up approach has always worked the best for me too. Bottom line, women love a guy who has the confidence to ask for what he wants. I'm not saying be a cocky, arrogant bastard, but learn to have true confidence.
Be straight up, and if you are interested in the girl, let her know. Call her and ask her out on a date. Go get coffee or a quick drink somewhere during the week. Do not ask her out for dinner or for a weekend date, that's much more of a commitment for either party. If she's interested, you'll know, if not, move on to the next one.
If she can't respond to you with maturity and common courtesy, she's not worth it. If you're just trying to get laid, you may choose to put up with some bullshit, but if you are looking for a real relationship, my personal experience has told me that the straight-up approach works best. Women like a guy with enough confidence to let her know what's up.
*edit* If you're trying to get laid, the straight up approach has always worked the best for me too. Bottom line, women love a guy who has the confidence to ask for what he wants. I'm not saying be a cocky, arrogant bastard, but learn to have true confidence.
-1 for all the bullshit. I never deal with it. but again, I never trust a woman bc I know all the foul shit they do. same as the foul shit we do, so I just end up... jaded. But if you can play the game though, i guess sometimes its fun.
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Originally Posted by Ishbu,Aug 16 2007, 12:06 PM
Women are complex as you can tell and no matter how much you argue with them, they will always think they are right even if they know they are in the wrong
"If you are going to be a bitch, then you can leave."
Learn it, know it, use it.
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Originally Posted by s2kbtos,Aug 15 2007, 06:56 PM
i will call her tomorrow to get over it already. she probably wanted me to call her not text her like i did... well who cares i will try it tomorrow.
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i feel ya.. i can admit, I've been in the same boat you have.. it takes some time to learn and realize the games women play.
I personally hate the game. Never been a fan of it and tried playing it with little success. But fortunately, certain girls do not play the game and are just "baggage" free. You might just click with a right gal-no games necessary then.
I personally hate the game. Never been a fan of it and tried playing it with little success. But fortunately, certain girls do not play the game and are just "baggage" free. You might just click with a right gal-no games necessary then.
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I can't tell you how many times a chick will just piss me off so I delete a lot of girls from my phone who have done things similar... then they get mad at me when I get a call from them and I dont have their number anymore and ask who it is haha.
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Originally Posted by LEE72,Aug 15 2007, 08:37 PM
I'm not saying be a cocky, arrogant bastard, but learn to have true confidence.
Learn it, live it, love it. Ohhhh the (additional) damage I could do now if I was back in college....
