It is a 6 of one 1/2 dozen of the other type of sitiuation...

The solution is to marry into wealth, then you'll be happy with 50%.

 

If she is suffering from mental illness, that explains why she has behaved that way. Though I am not condoning what she did, you might want to talk to the doctor about what has happened. I hope she receives some medical help and that even if you go your separate ways, you probably want to part your ways with clear conscience that you've done your best to help her. Even though your relationship might be over at this time, you probably want to see that she will be alright on her own too. Just my opinion.

 

As far as getting half of everything there isn't anything to get half of. she has her own car now and i have mine, the house is sold already and we have no money left over. So not much to split up. As far as her weight, yes she was very heavy. That's why she got the operation, if she had not she would most likely be dead. And yes she is almost six feet tall.

 

i guess ur lucky that there wasnt any kids involved. im guessing the split was pretty much 50:50, but did u put more into than 50%? thats the question, who made the repayments on teh house
and as far as the surgery, im thinking that once she got to a more normal size, she was thinking, i can ditch this douche and upgrade to better things, not that im saying ur a douche. but thats how bitches think. hence, the plastic surgery and what not, all to catch themself that lottery ticket

 

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hahahaha.....sorry, i have to laugh at the stupidity of some males in regards to them thinking relationships with women will be forever lasting.

anyways, i'm sure you'll be a better man for it.

 

Sorry to hear about all of that...not all women are evil...but, your soon-to-be-ex sure sounds like it...I dated a great guy who had a similar situation (only kids were involved)...we dated right before the divorce was final (and for a while afterwards)...he was the sweetest guy and we're still very friendly...and he's MUCH MUCH happier for it...he didn't think he was going to make it through...and I saw him through many tears...but, it's been about 3 years now and he's doing great...(he's been doing great for 2.5 though!!)

 

Hire a good lawyer ...she left you....and beside you'll find a better one ...you know better...better looking....better in bed....and mabey not as fat.

 

"Women treat you the way you let them treat and vice versa."

WFO Racer



WFO's grandmother gave my brother and I this advice:

"In a world this big you cannot possibly think this is the only woman that can make you happy". You shake her hand ,pat her on her big ass and thank her for playing. Go out and find her replacement. But you have to do some soul searching and ask yourself what did you do that led her to this behaviour ? Otherwise your doomed to repeat.

My wife and I have been known each other for over many years ,we have two little boys. But she knows she pulls a dumb stunt she is gone, and will be replaced before she knows what happened. And vice versa on my part.

Good luck dude, but look at it this way , you get to get into a new girl. To quote Al Bundy you get to enjoy that new hooter smell.

 

Thanks for the words of encouragement everybody. Life goes on right?

 

I hope you realize what a blessing in disguise this is for you, Once you go through the normal human emotions, You will look back on this as a great experience, Do yourself a favor and if you are done with the legalities of the marriage and finances - Break all contact with that soul sucker! She has drained you long enough...
you will be a much happier person when the dust settles! - It just takes time so, spend time with friends and try and pass the time.
Good Luck!
NZ