I beg to differ

 

I really love this forum, I wish I had the support of you guys when I was young and dumb

 

Its my d!ck in a box!!!

Not gonna buy you no diamond ring cause that sorta stuff dont mean a thing.

 

 

Awesome... had two friends go as them for Halloween. I really hope they weren't trick or treating.

Um, we're not dumbbies. We's naive.

 

little update on what happened.
i tried to talk to her after she got off work( we work at the same business) and i said "whats goin on? why are u being like this?".......i said it nicely
she says "me being like what!!?!?!!?"
i say "i give you your "space" and then you give me attitude?????"
she flips and says "no! no! no! screw you, you ****ing went around telling people i used you for the dog(i helped her purchase a mini wiener dog the day before this happened, the pics are in the thread titled "my newest purchase" in the off topic section)
well i never said this, it is all just the BS that is miscommunicated at work between people who hear part of the stories.
so here i am, told to eff off, stay out of my life, etc etc etc for something i never said.
what do i do????? she knows people at our work talk cuz most our fights are based off what people "said",...i let it slide, it really effects her though. i gotta add,...we dont know who says what its just all hearsay so we cant confront the "talkers"
here she is thinking i talk shit about the thing i love most, ...her. i would never do that.

 

Sounds like a basically unhealthy relationship (not in the sense that it's bad for you, but rather the relationship itself is sick) stemming from communication breakdowns.

If she heard you said something bad about her, why did she feel unable to talk to you about it, and instead simply pushed you away? Is there something you do that makes her uncomfortable talking to you? Does she have trust issues? Has she been burned by a guy in the past and is projecting that on you?

I have no idea how you would go about reestablish communication after its been broken, but if you want to pursue her, somehow you have to convey that you never said anything bad about her. And if you can get back together with her, then you need to figure out why she reacted the way she did, and what to do about that.

 

well as of a week ago today when this happened she told me that she was afraid we were turning into the relationship that i basically took her out of and she said that is the reason for the "break'....she didnt want us to turn out like that, she wanted things to get better before they got worse and there was no fixing it.
as far as her believing what people "say" i think she thinks it makes sense to believe it because of course i didnt want the break and i was upset about it but i told her id do it so she probably thinks it makes sense for me to say bad stuff about her......

 

drop her like a bad habit.

 

Get your god damn dog back.