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there are no sisters so thats out of the question,...any other advice?? its like,...i fight for her, then she gets annoyed,........i dont fight, then i dont care,....i dont know how to approach this "fight" . the last we talked she said "just give me what i want, and thats just some time apart, if you try and change that, you turn me into a bitch cuz i get annoyed"..............
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If you are annoying her than you are probably acting like an emotional painsy. I know that sounds extremely harsh and I'm not calling* you an emotional painsy, I'm saying you seem to be acting* like one. The girl should be annoying you, you shouldn't be annoying the girl.
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Originally Posted by sillyboybmxer,Nov 18 2007, 07:55 PM
there are no sisters so thats out of the question,...any other advice?? its like,...i fight for her, then she gets annoyed,........i dont fight, then i dont care,....i dont know how to approach this "fight" . the last we talked she said "just give me what i want, and thats just some time apart, if you try and change that, you turn me into a bitch cuz i get annoyed"..............
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I'm not going to tell you something lame like 'go have sex with as many women as you can.' that shit is lame and childish. you Actually need to figure out what kind of girl you are dating, and if she is someone who can settle down. Will she continue to do things like this in the future? Whats her deal, is it truly your fault or not. Is she disrespectful to you?
Is the situation worth it, is she worth it.
Don't give whats special of yourself to someone who doesn't deserve it.
If things are happening that's your fault, decide whether or not you can fix it, and address the issue.
Is the situation worth it, is she worth it.
Don't give whats special of yourself to someone who doesn't deserve it.
If things are happening that's your fault, decide whether or not you can fix it, and address the issue.
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Originally Posted by sillyboybmxer,Nov 18 2007, 04:55 PM
there are no sisters so thats out of the question,...any other advice?? its like,...i fight for her, then she gets annoyed,........i dont fight, then i dont care,....i dont know how to approach this "fight" . the last we talked she said "just give me what i want, and thats just some time apart, if you try and change that, you turn me into a bitch cuz i get annoyed"..............
cut her loose. Tell her it's over. If she comes begging then you know where you are. If she doesn't come back, you know where you are.
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Originally Posted by sahtt,Nov 17 2007, 11:13 PM
The fact you are this upset is probably the same reason she needs time apart. If the girl you are dating is under 25 and you don't remind her fairly often that you don't need her and don't think she is remotely 'perfect', she's going to leave you.
It might sound irrational-and that's probably because it is. If you like her too much or treat her too well she's going to look elsewhere. Don't ask me, I just follow the rules I don't try to change the system.
I will bet you a cool $1,000 that if you act like you truly** don't give a f*** that she wants time apart she will come crawling back to you before you can even get out the door.
I'm going with s2000raj on this one. My current girlfriend, who's pretty nuts, has two very attractive sisters and I honestly think that part of the reason I'm still with this broad is that I get to chill at her house while her and her sisters run around changing clothes before we go out. I can't control whether I like looking, that's all genetics.
It might sound irrational-and that's probably because it is. If you like her too much or treat her too well she's going to look elsewhere. Don't ask me, I just follow the rules I don't try to change the system.
I will bet you a cool $1,000 that if you act like you truly** don't give a f*** that she wants time apart she will come crawling back to you before you can even get out the door.
I'm going with s2000raj on this one. My current girlfriend, who's pretty nuts, has two very attractive sisters and I honestly think that part of the reason I'm still with this broad is that I get to chill at her house while her and her sisters run around changing clothes before we go out. I can't control whether I like looking, that's all genetics.
Girls want you to treat them like crap... I'm serious.
Tell her " no big deal, take your time."
Then go out, hang with your friends and dont talk about her with your friends.
Next time she calls answer sharp, "whats up I'm busy, can I call you back?
I messed up once and said sorry to my girl. Biggest mistake I ever made.
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Originally Posted by sillyboybmxer,Nov 16 2007, 10:48 PM
i dont get them!!! love the girl to death, she says she loves me too, but then all of a sudden "we some time apart"..............."i love u and want us to get back together but right now i need some space"................ok so dont break up with me to get the space! duh!
She assures me it is nothing else, guys, etc etc. so why the hell do they do this crap to us????
She assures me it is nothing else, guys, etc etc. so why the hell do they do this crap to us????