^don't go that far as to ruin a family relationship. in the end friends will go off and do their own thing but the only thing that stays is family.

but im sorry that you had to go through this experience, losing a pet is very difficult

 

[QUOTE=Ishbu,Dec 4 2007, 08:17 PM]That is what I'm hoping to do real soon is to just move out and completely disconnect myself from the family.

 

I've tried to talk to them. My dad at first had the nerve to tell me that it was just a dog and then I almost hit him for that but then he actually broke down and started crying and said that he didnt mean for this to happen. I told him later that day the reason that I havent hit him was because of the dog. There is no point to talk to my parents cause they just find other things to blame or find at fault. They think they are always in the right.

There is no point talking to my parents. My brother and I both agree with that. If I were to try to talk to my mom, she would be fine to talk to for the first few minutes and then she goes into bitch mode and pisses me and my brother off and sometimes my dad has to tell my mom to shut up. If I were to try to talk to my dad, he just doesnt really seem to care and sometimes he likes to laugh at the situation and be a complete asshole about it and I've already heard from my mom that he just doesnt really seem to care about me and/or my brother.

Yesterday my brother confronted my dad about him lying about the dog and my brother told my dad to go F**k himself. Then I teamed up with my brother against my dad.

Pretty much I will never forgive my parents and will never forget what they did. I leave notes on my parents door reminding them everyday on what they did. They scarred me permanently. Once I move out and know I am financially secure then I will never speak to them again.

 

Dude, you will almost certainly speak to your parents again, you are just pissed. True, what they did was messed up, but you all will get over it.

 

I honestly dont know. I cant even go to sleep well. I can never be at home with my parents awake or it just leads to a continuous argument. I just hate them for what they did. I just hope they dont get me a dog for christmas just to replace my previous dog cause if they do then I will go insane

 

Ishbu, I'm very sorry for your loss.

This is about the most bizarre thing I've ever read. The parents sent the dog to a shelter while you were sleeping? How late in the day do you sleep? Then said he'd been given to another family? You'reis still living with your family? Why? Later posts suggest mom may have some serious mental health problems. This is one very disfunctional family unit. The sooner you're out on his own, the better.

Seriously, Ishbu, it's time to hit the highway.

 

They took him before 11 AM. When I woke up I didnt see him and I started panicking like crazy. Unfortunately I'm still living with my parents and I'm trying to focus on getting myself financially secure without the worry of screwing myself over in the long run so I can move out.

Its not that my mom has mental health problems, its just that they were born and raised in India and I was born and raised in America. Completely different standards and values. They kept blaming me for not walking the dog when he needed to be walked but I wouldnt get home from work until 7:30 but I would always walk my dog the moment I got home.

I've had numerous friends tell me that my family should be on the jerry springer show and/or the maury show. Trust me, if I had the money where I can be set now and in the future, I would definitely move out but now its just something I have to seriously focus on

 

Dude that sucks. I'm so sorry man. He looked like a kick ass dog.

 

He was the nicest dog. Always loved everyone who came in the house. Even was watching over my nephew like a guard when I passed out one morning. Yea he would have a couple temper tantrums here and there but never bit a single person. He always liked to jump on people and lick them in the face. Some days whenever I would come home, he would like to try to knock me down and start licking me like crazy. He would always sleep next to me and some days he would wake me up if I didnt hear my alarm clock. He was smart and very loving and he was wrongfully taken away from me. Its like a huge part of my life has just been destroyed by my parents and my parents are finally realizing the damage they did but it costed my poor dog's life.

 

You're 21, sleeping until 11:30, and passing out in the morning, unless due to medical conditions, just isn't normal. Sounds llike you need to do some growing up.
As I said before, it's time to get out of Dodge. You can afford a pretty nice car. Maybe you should rethink that right now. Get a more economical ride while you get yourself established on your own. Put the money going into the S into an apartment.
Only you can decide if the emotinal abuse of your parents is worth a free ride in their home. And having your dog put down is nothing short of emotinal abuse.