then what precisely are you doing in this thread? We've heard stories, don't pretend they're not true.

 

Better yet, pics of girl so we can further evaluate the situation.

 

Normally I'd advise against it but like anything else in life its circumstantial.

I've met a few Iraqi-war widows... It's tough to think they wouldn't be able to find a partner after something like that because they have a kid..

 

Lets think about this. Would you really wanna date an Iraq-war widow w/ a kid. I mean srsly. That has "no" written all over it. I got love for em and wish em the best b/c of what happened but... c'mon.

 

Ya... I havnt changed much either

 

putting out isn't a good thing if there's no birth control involved, and you know she isn't pro-choice!