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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 03:23 PM
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ur a lucky bastard. i survived 3 years of college eating 50% of my meals at gualbertos and fusion.

omg i wish i had some of their carnitas right now. cant believe they sold the platter for only 5.95... i would have easily paid double that. awesome salsa bar, simple yet always fresh and the salsa was actually spicy. Jose the owner used to grill up serrano chiles for me too.. gawd i miss sd.

strippers + carnitas ftmfw!
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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 03:49 PM
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Final comments to OP - once you get with her you won't care anymore, meeting her at work was most likely the killer to your definitive decision. Its impossible for me to give you good advice because these women will go to great lengths to make you spend money on them, even if it means giving you their phone number and rubbing on your junk (although pretty illegal and inforced in California). UPDATE US when you have called her and hung out outside the club... chances are she won't be what you saw in her @ work.

A little while ago I wanted to write a paper on social dynamics of a stripper and their schizophrenia-like mindstate (being "_____" inside the club and ______ to family and friends). Its a VERY difficult situation if you met her inside, she could have very well been in her other "self" and gave off the wrong impression. I've found myself countless times having to tell my girlfriend to stop acting like "_____" and be real (arguements where she will try and seduce me out of them).

People only like strippers because they have a "unattainable" aspect to them.

I really like asian girls but I'm white, they seem unattainable, thus I like them even more.
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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by njsdca,Oct 6 2008, 03:49 PM

A little while ago I wanted to write a paper on social dynamics of a stripper and their schizophrenia-like mindstate (being "_____" inside the club and ______ to family and friends).
hmmm........... you sure it's schizophrenia?
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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 04:45 PM
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Maybe multiple personality? I don't know the exact wording for it but yes I'm sure.
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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 06:40 PM
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I would say more along the lines of multiple personality disorder brotha. Schizophrenia is more of a psychological hallucinations and being in a different state of mind, not being a different person.
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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 07:01 PM
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I had a good friend in college who dated nothing but strippers. He had a kind of Harley/gang/trashy look to him and actually did well just going to stip joints to try to pick them up.

All of the girls were nuts. He would bring them out with us (but not when our girlfriends were around because they would have given him bitch fits up and down his back) and we would ask them questions. The entertainment factor was amazing. Most were doing ecstacy while dancing (late 80's/early 90's) and all had massive baggage about their fathers. Pretty sterotypical story. My favorite one he dated had worked her way up from Hooters to stripping. I asked her why she made the switch and she said "I figured out I could make a ton more money by just taking off a little more clothing."

All of us thought he was crazy, but he loved the drama. He graduated to dating hookers after college, but that's another story.
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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted by problem_child,Oct 6 2008, 05:49 AM
go for it unless you are gay.


Exotic Dancers are every on the to do list for every guy
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Old Oct 6, 2008 | 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted by MikeyCB,Oct 6 2008, 05:18 PM
Found a better one... http://calgary.en.craigslist.ca/mis/860614542.html
Sorry for the hijack, I'll shut up now.
Now that's what I'm talking about.. you KNOW she puts out.
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Old Oct 7, 2008 | 12:41 AM
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Originally Posted by GPMike,Oct 6 2008, 05:30 AM
The answer is yes. So what they dance. Its good money. A lot of these girls actually go to school. Some are there just to save up money to start there own business, and some are there as a part time job to pay off bills (loans, house, credit cards, etc). Some are there for the empowerment over men.

Before you laugh and say yea right....its true because I have spoken to many a dancer in my lifetime. Having traveled a lot in the past for business, I would go out to a gentleman's club the night before my departing flight back home (just in case my plane went down, at least I saw boobies the night before!) A lot of these girls have a good head on their shoulder (not a pun you dirty scoundrels!) I say go for it young man.
Iv talked to a decent amount of strippers. id say a good 80-90% of them were doing it for college. Cant always judge.

dont get me wrong, iv met some really trashy ones too...

Last time I went to a strip club, met a girl that was 21-22. She was way cute too. maybe 105lbs? I talked to her for about 45 minutes. Life, work, goals, etc. intelligent convo. Not one point did she try to get money from me, have her dance, by her a drink, etc.
not the least bit stuck up either.

Take it for what its worth and give a call.
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Old Oct 7, 2008 | 05:23 AM
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friend of mine dated a stripper or an Ex-stripper "that what she said".
girl was kinda messed up, she got married and then left the guy (she still married) and then she started dating my friend, after they broke up she started to date my friends roommate.

not only that, her persona was just crazy, 8 th grade dropout, problem with father, thinks she knows it all and if you proof her wrong (which was all the time) she would still say she is right and we were wrong.

on the plus side she had a huge rack.
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