Would you DATE an excotic dancer? Story inside
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It's a very hard question to answer.
If you meet this girl at the mall and she was flirting with you. Next thing you know she gives you her number and tells you to call her. You decided to call her and you guys go on a few dates. Everything is going good into the relationship and than she tells you that's she's a exotic dancer. Do you think anything is going to change?
If you meet this girl at the mall and she was flirting with you. Next thing you know she gives you her number and tells you to call her. You decided to call her and you guys go on a few dates. Everything is going good into the relationship and than she tells you that's she's a exotic dancer. Do you think anything is going to change?
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Of course things are going to change. Naturally your first reaction would possibly be a number of things:
1. Your taken back in disgust that she thinks its "OK" to strip, or immediately assume she is a whore.
2. You immediately call your best buddies and tell them the girl you've been seeing is a stripper (bad choice, she probably doesn't want the label).
3. (MY CASE) You understand her position, but neither respect it or disrespect her decision, but definitely set out some regulations for the both of you.
Things will change, guys are jealous... If I went into her work and saw her straight gaming it up with some dudes and touching them I would not be cool with it. I try and stay away from that thought, but at the same time I do not interrupt her job... 'cause honestly its good money without that much work.
There's a lot more into it, but we all don't have that much time.
1. Your taken back in disgust that she thinks its "OK" to strip, or immediately assume she is a whore.
2. You immediately call your best buddies and tell them the girl you've been seeing is a stripper (bad choice, she probably doesn't want the label).
3. (MY CASE) You understand her position, but neither respect it or disrespect her decision, but definitely set out some regulations for the both of you.
Things will change, guys are jealous... If I went into her work and saw her straight gaming it up with some dudes and touching them I would not be cool with it. I try and stay away from that thought, but at the same time I do not interrupt her job... 'cause honestly its good money without that much work.
There's a lot more into it, but we all don't have that much time.
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Originally Posted by njsdca,Oct 22 2008, 03:48 PM
Of course things are going to change. Naturally your first reaction would possibly be a number of things:
1. Your taken back in disgust that she thinks its "OK" to strip, or immediately assume she is a whore.
2. You immediately call your best buddies and tell them the girl you've been seeing is a stripper (bad choice, she probably doesn't want the label).
3. (MY CASE) You understand her position, but neither respect it or disrespect her decision, but definitely set out some regulations for the both of you.
Things will change, guys are jealous... If I went into her work and saw her straight gaming it up with some dudes and touching them I would not be cool with it. I try and stay away from that thought, but at the same time I do not interrupt her job... 'cause honestly its good money without that much work.
There's a lot more into it, but we all don't have that much time.
1. Your taken back in disgust that she thinks its "OK" to strip, or immediately assume she is a whore.
2. You immediately call your best buddies and tell them the girl you've been seeing is a stripper (bad choice, she probably doesn't want the label).
3. (MY CASE) You understand her position, but neither respect it or disrespect her decision, but definitely set out some regulations for the both of you.
Things will change, guys are jealous... If I went into her work and saw her straight gaming it up with some dudes and touching them I would not be cool with it. I try and stay away from that thought, but at the same time I do not interrupt her job... 'cause honestly its good money without that much work.
There's a lot more into it, but we all don't have that much time.
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Originally Posted by njsdca,Oct 22 2008, 06:48 PM
If I went into her work and saw her straight gaming it up with some dudes and touching them I would not be cool with it.
... 'cause honestly its good money without that much work.
... 'cause honestly its good money without that much work.
is cheating on someone wrong? yes
is having sex with someone other than the person you're with cheating? yes
is being an adult film star having sex with someone other than the person you're with? most likely
i certainly don't want someone i'm supposed to be "with" touching, rubbing on, flirting with other guys. i don't care if she is making a shit ton of money.
my $.02
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Originally Posted by my2ks2k,Oct 23 2008, 07:59 AM
my opinion: if something is wrong, then getting paid to do it doesn't make it right.
is cheating on someone wrong? yes
is having sex with someone other than the person you're with cheating? yes
is being an adult film star having sex with someone other than the person you're with? most likely
i certainly don't want someone i'm supposed to be "with" touching, rubbing on, flirting with other guys. i don't care if she is making a shit ton of money.
my $.02
is cheating on someone wrong? yes
is having sex with someone other than the person you're with cheating? yes
is being an adult film star having sex with someone other than the person you're with? most likely
i certainly don't want someone i'm supposed to be "with" touching, rubbing on, flirting with other guys. i don't care if she is making a shit ton of money.
my $.02
there is a BIG difference between how they act inside their strip club, and how they act to you and everyone else outside. (I WON'T SAY THAT AGAIN) its the reason why they have a STAGE NAME.
i like how all you picture is the same stripper you talked to inside the club being a big ass whore outside the club strutting around in heels at some local bar giving lap dances to the guys and showing her boobs to strangers. believe it or not its almost always completely opposite. when my girl would talk about going to parties and people knew she stripped, all these girls/guys would be like "show me your tits," or talk a load of sh!t about her but by the end of the night their drunk ass would be getting pounded by some random college guy or walking around showing their tits to everyone (which I completely advocate for the record).
so i respect your $.02 and i know you're absolutely correct to say that you don't want to be with that sort of person, but i doubt she wants to be in the situation she's in either... and sometimes that desperation (ie. no parents or signifant others to pay for their college/drugs/clothes or other addictions) leads them to it.
