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Would you be mad if some guy hits on your girlfriend?

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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 02:52 PM
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Well... me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months now... and our relationship couldn't get any better than as it is right now.. and i know that she is one of the most faithful person out there... but the problem is that she gets "hit on" by other guys often... but they do back off after her telling them that she's got a boyfriend... .. but still it DOES bother me a bit... my buddy once said that i should be PROUD that i got a cute girlfriend... but it still BOTHERS me... am i being too sensitive or protective here?...

How would you feel if you sighted some guy hittin' on your girlfriend?
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 02:56 PM
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nah, I think its natural what ur goin thru man. Ur just a tiny jealous, i used to be the same way with my gf but i ended up livin with it. cuz if u really trust her, then u have nothing to worry about. So what if guys hit on her? as long as she knows to just walk away and u say shes faithful to you, u really have nothin to worry about. she cant help shes a good looking girl, but at the same time u cant help being alittle jealous. but heres the key word "TRUST" its all good man, dont worry about a thing : )
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 02:58 PM
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depends, if they know that she has a boyfriend, and still hit on her, then i would be pissed. otherwise, if they back off after they find out, no harm in that, i would take it as a compliment. i love it when guys try to hit on my wife at a club or something and she just laughs at them and walks over to me but if they do it when im standing right there, then thats a different story.
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 02:59 PM
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If a guy hits on your gf when you are standing right there, holding hands, yes. I would be mad at my gf if she didn't tell these guys she has a bf. But it is silly to get mad if a guy hits on your gf when she isn't with you. If you want people to know she is not available, get her a ring to wear. It won't work all the time, though.
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 03:00 PM
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I totally agree with Brerspidur there. If i was standing right there, then i would be pissed off then too. Take it ouside then man!
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 03:01 PM
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I used to be like that.. but you gotta remeber that shes with you.
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 03:11 PM
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what sickestS2k00 said is right. people tend to become a little bit jealous, but you shouldn't go crazy if you trust your girlfriend, as long as she has the sense to let the guy know that she's not available nor is she interested.

one night during new years, my boyfriend and i were hanging out with his roommate's new girlfriend and her brother. while my boyfriend and his roommate went to the bathroom, the brother hit on me, and actually had the nerve to go for a cheap thrill by grabbing my butt!!! i sat my butt down on a stool and told him not to do it again. yeah...he almost got his ass kicked when my boyfriend and his roommate found out. drunk or not...TOTAL DISRESPECT!
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 03:19 PM
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I have to laugh because thats how my ex was. Of course you should be mad. As what my friend said, "I don't like people f*cking with my sh*t." It's cool to look but when they start beign disrespectful it's not cool. I love how ppl do gawk though. I think it's the funniest thing. It's like you see a girl with a guy, and it's the two of them. More than likely they're together so it's like stop gawking/and or hitting on her you winner!
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 03:19 PM
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by CeleSaga83
Well... me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months now...
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Old Mar 11, 2004 | 03:30 PM
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It does all depend on the way they hit on your girl. At my store ghetto ass people hit on my wife all the time. One time some dude was all "that bitch is cute" I had to put it down. I chased the bastard out of the store with my bat. Some guys are very respectful about it though. I respect that. They are usually telling me that I am lucky.

My wife hates it though if another girl hits on me. she'll cut em'
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