I'm a flirt by nature, so I don't think it would be fair of me to get upset with some guy flirting with my girl. As long as she's not taking it beyond that flirty banter...no harm, no foul...

 

I agree Brant. Thats the first good thing youve said here!!! Daniel, i hear that Some guys just dont get it, and or they are that desperate and they figure they will never get another opportunity or something As far as me getting mad at some guy for flirting with her, as long as he respects the fact that she's taken and doesnt do it in a manner where he is interupting our conversation then i dont mind. Ive actually gotten used to hearing all the stories of guys hitting on mine when she does her "ladies-nite" out I cant belive the dumb pickup lines guys use nowadays

 

CeleSaga

I agree with Brant too. Unless the guy is going too far, take it as a compliment. If you can't stand how she handles the situation you don't need to be with her because it will just lead to heartache. She won't change and if you confront her it will make a rift in your relationship.

 

it would piss me off if the guy kept trying even though she already said she has a bf.

 

And to make it worse, a lot of times, the guy hitting on your girl already has a girlfriend or wife.

 

You guys are gonna' crucify me for this, but average girls are where it's at. I've been fortunate in my life to have dated many girls that looked like they stepped off the cover of a magazine and it never worked out for the reasons of...

1. The were so fine they always had someone waiting, so there was no need to really "work" on a relationship.
2. My insecurities got the better of me.
3. They just weren't the right "type" because things have always come easier for them.

In any case, if you have a really pretty girl, you have to put up with a few things, and this is one of them.

 

S2Kguy, while I agree to a point, I also think that it's more about attitude than looks. I've known plenty of hot chicks that couldn't get a date and plenty of "average" girls that didn't have a free night on their calendar for a year.

For me it always boiled down to trust. If I am with someone, I am committed to trusting them. That means they have the latitude to go do what they want and I know they won't overstep the boundaries of our relationship.

If you can't trust the person you are with because you think they've either got someone in the wings or you think they would let someone go to far flirting then you shouldn't be with them.

Or something like that...

 

S2K guy you're so funny but you do have a point. My ex used to bitch about the same thing. He was all hot girls are trouble. You always know guys are looking at them, got to worry about what your girls thinking because she knows if you f*ck up she can find someone else fast, and if the guy whos hitting on her is an ass, you're goning to get into a fight. LOL. That being said though, you know you still enjoyed guys eyeing up your gf S2K guy. But, average girls, they aren't trouble I would have to admitt. You know they're probably faithful and you don't have to worry about them.

 

I honestly could care less if a guy hits on my girlfriend, if I'm not around. I expect it, in fact. It's a waste of your time worrying about it. She's your gf because you care for her, and you TRUST her. Always remember, if your girl cheats, it's your GIRL's fault (or yours possibly if you aren't doing things to keep her around), the other guy is just an instrument for HER infidelity.

ERIK

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by brerspidur
depends, if they know that she has a boyfriend, and still hit on her, then i would be pissed.