loads and loads and loads and then comes up like minutes later?

been having problems for months, i come to the site and click pm.. and takes about a minute for it to load.. my internet connection is like 10000kbps or whatever it is.. mbps? so its not my internet... curious if anyone else haing the same problem?

 

just deleted like 9500 of my messages and it loads quick now.. im guessing before it would just load the new stuff.. but something hanged where system loads all messages and then it would bog down because of my bulk.. nvm

 

It has to sort all of the messages which means it has to load them all. The more messages you have in the folder the longer it takes. It's not terribly efficient.