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Ugh...Perhaps at some point I'll lighten up and actually laugh at how ridiculous that is.
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Originally Posted by shareall,Aug 25 2009, 10:36 AM
Next question...How do I exert self-control? There are two particular scenarios I'm thinking of, but since they're quite different, I suppose a general answer would help.
Isolate the stressors.
Restructure the schemas surrounding those stressors.
Positively reinforce the restructured schemas.
I'm in no room to talk about this whatsoever.
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Originally Posted by KeithMajkasays,Aug 25 2009, 10:42 AM
Do you find it funny that Shareall has setup about 11 different 
s over the past week and still hasnt caught on?
s over the past week and still hasnt caught on?
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Originally Posted by bigygf,Aug 25 2009, 10:53 AM
what's the meaning of life?
In asking the question, you've obfuscated the answer.
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Aug 25 2009, 03:00 PM
Identify the stressors by which you loose self-control.
Isolate the stressors.
Restructure the schemas surrounding those stressors.
Positively reinforce the restructured schemas.
I'm in no room to talk about this whatsoever.
Isolate the stressors.
Restructure the schemas surrounding those stressors.
Positively reinforce the restructured schemas.
I'm in no room to talk about this whatsoever.
Next philosophical question: Do you think that people's core qualities/behaviours can change, or are most destined to remain essentially the same, even if they are growing as people?
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Originally Posted by shareall,Aug 25 2009, 01:35 PM
Stressors are very easy to identify and isolate. It's definitely the restructuring that presents the challenge. Aaaand of course I can't reinforce if I can't restructure.
Next philosophical question: Do you think that people's core qualities/behaviours can change, or are most destined to remain essentially the same, even if they are growing as people?
Next philosophical question: Do you think that people's core qualities/behaviours can change, or are most destined to remain essentially the same, even if they are growing as people?
