"Everything happens for a reason" is my friend Dana's favorite saying. I cringe everytime I hear it...

 

oops, guess I misunderstood the fence thing. I hate those sayings, because it does nothing for me at that precise moment. I appreciate them when I realize they are true. make sense?

 

Totally understand. When you are hurt you are hurt and nothing and no one can say anything to make it any better. No one can truly empathize even if they have gone through something similar because their experience means jack when you are in the middle of your pain. Trying to put it into words is infuriating because words seems to diminish the strength of your feelings.

With the smaller stuff though I like "This too shall pass." gotten me through some boring or physically painful spots, like a meditative mantra.

 

Very cool FUGU~what the heck is that anyways? I love it when people have the same views as I do, makes me breath a little easier. I'm making coffee, anybody want a cup?

 

I could go for some tea...but I'm too lazy to walk downstairs to heat up the water...

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Fugu
[B]Trying to put it into words is infuriating because words seems to diminish the strength of your feelings.

 

me me!
sheesh I need to go to bed not all us have nothing to do but PACK tomorrow! *cough* BRANT *cough*

It absolutely, positively SUCKS! The worst thing about it is NOTHING makes it better except time, and when it has just begun....knowing THAT is well just plain WRONG!

 

I'll cyber warm it for ya

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by CHIX RULE
[B]I love it when people have the same views as

 

Fugu~ I'll drink plenty for you. I wish "time" came with a big 'ol bandaid, because even time does not make it better, at least for me anyways.