Bad luck with women?
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Originally Posted by J_inDA_s2k,Jul 27 2007, 02:42 PM
this is why I only date m.i.l.f.s 35-45, those women now how to treat a man.
But to the topic starter... it sounds like she has you pvssy whipped. She apparently knows that she can just run over you when she pleases. Either lay down some limits or drop her (preferably the latter).
GL ... don't be too upset, you learn something from every relationship.
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Ditch her, she has no respect for you. When she asked you if you were angry, you should have said the truth. Move on, every minute you spend worrying about this is taking a minute away from the next conquest.
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Originally Posted by NFRs2000NYC,Jul 28 2007, 11:02 PM
This girl is.....
Dump her. She has no respect for you, and only cares about herself. "Ditch the b!tch."
And two more helpful tips...
1)Dont tell girls you've only had sex once, EVEN if they are virgins. They want someone with experience, not someone who will experiment on them.
2)Unless it is the 5th date, a movie is a terrible idea. You are basically killing 2 hours of getting to know one another.
Dump her. She has no respect for you, and only cares about herself. "Ditch the b!tch."
And two more helpful tips...
1)Dont tell girls you've only had sex once, EVEN if they are virgins. They want someone with experience, not someone who will experiment on them.
2)Unless it is the 5th date, a movie is a terrible idea. You are basically killing 2 hours of getting to know one another.
- Tell a lie and tell her my car alarm/remote unlock doesn't work and manually unlock the car door and open the door for her. If she doesn't unlock your door for you as you walk around, she is probably selfish.
- Observe her purse and also how many times she applies lip gloss, makeup, etc. Women that own $600 gucci purses are 99% selfish (fact of life). The constant lip gloss applying show insecurity.
- Listen to her what she say, if most of her conversation is about herself, she is probably selfish.
- Purposely inconvienence her and see how she reacts. I called this one chick I was dating one day and asked her to drive 30 minutes to my place (in the middle of the day) to get a spare key from my sister. She did it without complaning...those are keepers, at least for awhile.
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I dated a girl like her for a while. Cute girl--a model and all. But she didn't like me for who I am--she thought I was rich/smart/whatever, and yet she didn't relate to me; she thought I was the next best thing to the guy she used to love and I fit the right criteria.
She led me on quite a bit because she didn't want to lose me, but I think the chemistry was never completely there on her side. It took me months to really figure it out, but I finally told her I wanted nothing to do with her.
Now I've met a girl that fits all the criteria of the previous post--Great girl!!! Worth the wait! I don't know about the statistics, but it certainly seems like the truly good, compatible ones are rare, and they are worth the wait and all the garbage you have to go through to get there!
She led me on quite a bit because she didn't want to lose me, but I think the chemistry was never completely there on her side. It took me months to really figure it out, but I finally told her I wanted nothing to do with her.
Now I've met a girl that fits all the criteria of the previous post--Great girl!!! Worth the wait! I don't know about the statistics, but it certainly seems like the truly good, compatible ones are rare, and they are worth the wait and all the garbage you have to go through to get there!
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From: SJC
Unkie Trunkie Says:
This chick is a basket-case. Therefore;
crazy in the head = crazy in the bed
Recommended Course of Action:
1. Ice her. Don't call back, etc. etc. If heaven forbid, she confronts you about it, just tell her, "you've been busy with work/school/hustlin." No details; keep it vague, and with the notion that you've been working.
2. When she decideds to get coy (as she'll want a piece of the hustling you), pounce on it. One night. Be a freak.
3. Leave. Ice her again.
4. Oh yeah, don't forget the
and Tobasco.
This chick is a basket-case. Therefore;
crazy in the head = crazy in the bed
Recommended Course of Action:
1. Ice her. Don't call back, etc. etc. If heaven forbid, she confronts you about it, just tell her, "you've been busy with work/school/hustlin." No details; keep it vague, and with the notion that you've been working.
2. When she decideds to get coy (as she'll want a piece of the hustling you), pounce on it. One night. Be a freak.
3. Leave. Ice her again.
4. Oh yeah, don't forget the
and Tobasco.
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From: Huntsville
Originally Posted by gotrice02,Jul 29 2007, 10:45 AM
good advice. Typically, I could tell pretty quickly if the girl was worth it. I would say 96% are dissapointments. Just observe the little things and you can find out plenty about her personality. It might sound stupid, but here are some things I used to do.
- Tell a lie and tell her my car alarm/remote unlock doesn't work and manually unlock the car door and open the door for her. If she doesn't unlock your door for you as you walk around, she is probably selfish.
- Observe her purse and also how many times she applies lip gloss, makeup, etc. Women that own $600 gucci purses are 99% selfish (fact of life). The constant lip gloss applying show insecurity.
- Listen to her what she say, if most of her conversation is about herself, she is probably selfish.
- Purposely inconvienence her and see how she reacts. I called this one chick I was dating one day and asked her to drive 30 minutes to my place (in the middle of the day) to get a spare key from my sister. She did it without complaning...those are keepers, at least for awhile.
- Tell a lie and tell her my car alarm/remote unlock doesn't work and manually unlock the car door and open the door for her. If she doesn't unlock your door for you as you walk around, she is probably selfish.
- Observe her purse and also how many times she applies lip gloss, makeup, etc. Women that own $600 gucci purses are 99% selfish (fact of life). The constant lip gloss applying show insecurity.
- Listen to her what she say, if most of her conversation is about herself, she is probably selfish.
- Purposely inconvienence her and see how she reacts. I called this one chick I was dating one day and asked her to drive 30 minutes to my place (in the middle of the day) to get a spare key from my sister. She did it without complaning...those are keepers, at least for awhile.