The thing is, if you just want to have sex with her, you are going to have to Play the Game.

If you want to date her and like her, you are fooling yourself.

You know your own priorities, so once you can pinpoint which one you're after then stick with it. But, the only course of action you can choose if you really want to like and date this girl is to Leave her alone, because it will Not turn out good. If you just want to ****, it won't turn out good either (its never that great), but oh well. enjoy

 

it sounds like this girl is just using you... she's still longing for her ex but he doesn't want her.. and she just wants the companionship...

have a little more respect for yourself.. if this girl isn't going out of her way to see you, thats a big sign that she's not interested...

you seem to be a nice guy, considerate and caring... you shouldn't be with a girl like that...

don't worry... you'll find someone where you least expect it!

 

Aside from the fact that this girl isn't right for you and you having nothing to benefit from, it sounds (reads) like you have a confidence issue when it comes to meeting women. If you feel like you have to lower your expectations or be willing to except short comings, you need to change this attitude now. When you approach any women with this attitude, they will either not give you the time of day or fully take advantage of you. There's a thin line between confidence and arrogance, don't get it mixed up. Work on your confidence first and you'll see the difference.

 

 

Ice her.. if she gives two shits about you, she will make an effort. Otherwise, perhaps a rage ****, then toss her to the curb.

 

Looks like you were never really dating anyway so there is nothing to dump. Don't waste your time on situations like this.