View Poll Results: Is it morally wrong to knowingly hook up with someone who is in a relationship, that is be the other
No - cheating is only wrong for the person who is in the relationship, you're just in the right place at the right time
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I just want to throw it out there that it takes two to cheat.
Scenario one: A woman cheats on her man because he abuses her and beats her, but she never finds the courage to leave the bastard for a better man/life.
Scenario two: A man cheats on and then leaves his girlfriend because until then he never realized that he could do better. There are people that stay in relationships because they're afraid of being alone and leave when they find out they can do better.
What if a woman cheats on her man and leaves him because she thinks that you'd be better for her? Wouldn't you be doing her a favor? Or vice versa, what if you know that the guy is a douche and you know you'd treat her ten times better if she was with you?
Of course, if you've been treating a girl like a queen and she still cheats on you, then it's her loss and it probably wasn't meant to be to begin with.
Some will, some won't
So what
Someone else is always waiting.
Scenario one: A woman cheats on her man because he abuses her and beats her, but she never finds the courage to leave the bastard for a better man/life.
Scenario two: A man cheats on and then leaves his girlfriend because until then he never realized that he could do better. There are people that stay in relationships because they're afraid of being alone and leave when they find out they can do better.
What if a woman cheats on her man and leaves him because she thinks that you'd be better for her? Wouldn't you be doing her a favor? Or vice versa, what if you know that the guy is a douche and you know you'd treat her ten times better if she was with you?
Of course, if you've been treating a girl like a queen and she still cheats on you, then it's her loss and it probably wasn't meant to be to begin with.
Some will, some won't
So what
Someone else is always waiting.
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Originally Posted by mxt_77,Jun 25 2009, 03:23 PM
"Do unto others..." and all that stuff.
Would I want to be the guy whose girlfriend is cheating on him? No. Then that means that I shouldn't put another guy in that same position.
Pretty simple. Call it karma, "The Golden Rule", whatever. Every belief system has a 'rule' that tells you it's wrong. So, if you have any morals, then the answer is "Yes. It's wrong."
Would I want to be the guy whose girlfriend is cheating on him? No. Then that means that I shouldn't put another guy in that same position.
Pretty simple. Call it karma, "The Golden Rule", whatever. Every belief system has a 'rule' that tells you it's wrong. So, if you have any morals, then the answer is "Yes. It's wrong."
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Originally Posted by thebig33tuna,Jun 26 2009, 09:30 AM
seems that more think it is wrong than not, but not by a huge margin...
