Cheating Would you do it?
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Originally Posted by d.h,Nov 21 2009, 08:29 PM
Um, If that's the case, then I really feel for you. Of all these years that I flew, I haven't seen any attractive flight attendants. Maybe a handful at best. Most of them are in their 40's and up. Basically all from the era where being a flight attendant was popular. But of course, that's unless I've been flight the wrong airline for all these years.
P.S. - I have yet to go on the Hooters Airline.
That statement can go both ways depending on the point of views. Some can say that you are disrespecting yourself if you don't fulfill your needs, or if your a "Playa", your reputation depends on it. Let's face it, we're talking about one of the two most powerful and the oldest sins in history of this earth, Lust. It's part of every single being's instinct. You can say whatever you want on the net, but I don't believe you that if I put blah blah blah in front of you, that you wouldn't even have a thought.
P.S. - I have yet to go on the Hooters Airline.
That statement can go both ways depending on the point of views. Some can say that you are disrespecting yourself if you don't fulfill your needs, or if your a "Playa", your reputation depends on it. Let's face it, we're talking about one of the two most powerful and the oldest sins in history of this earth, Lust. It's part of every single being's instinct. You can say whatever you want on the net, but I don't believe you that if I put blah blah blah in front of you, that you wouldn't even have a thought.
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Its wrong. Don't do it and put yourself and your girl through it. If you feel you need to go out and be free for awhile break up with her and give it a month or so and go about your business.
A little story, I was on detachment to Fallon Navada when I was married and a gorgeous (sp). Girl I worked with was getting very close with me. the type of girl you would never think to even be into you, thats how hot she was.if all the rooms we had didnt have two people in them I would have cheated for sure since I was a little tipsy to boot. To cut the story short I still feel horrible just knowing that I would have cheated on my wife and she is my X now.
A little story, I was on detachment to Fallon Navada when I was married and a gorgeous (sp). Girl I worked with was getting very close with me. the type of girl you would never think to even be into you, thats how hot she was.if all the rooms we had didnt have two people in them I would have cheated for sure since I was a little tipsy to boot. To cut the story short I still feel horrible just knowing that I would have cheated on my wife and she is my X now.
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Nov 21 2009, 06:17 PM
Take a look at the woman you've been in the relationship with, and ask yourself, "Do I want this to work?"
If the answer is, "yes," don't cheat on her.
If the answer is, "no," enjoy.
. . . and to reinforce what others have said; you're 21, you should be banging everything that moves.
Don't even think about a "relationship" until you're out of college, with some idea of how your professional life is going to go.
If the answer is, "yes," don't cheat on her.
If the answer is, "no," enjoy.
. . . and to reinforce what others have said; you're 21, you should be banging everything that moves.
Don't even think about a "relationship" until you're out of college, with some idea of how your professional life is going to go.
I could not have said it better, amen brotha.
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At the end of the day, it basically boils down to if you're happy with what you're doing and if you're willing to put up with the consequence(s). You cant have to pros without the cons. They go hand in hand.
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The problem is, there are two emotions that will always come to F--- with you when you cheat
1) that amazing feeling when you first penetrate some strange women
2) that awful awful feeling of shame and disgust you will feel when you pull out and scramble to find your shit and bounce.
One of the saddest things I can remember is one night I was in Buffalo and ended up sleeping with this United Flight Attendant (I was on a break from the g/f) and aftera few drinks she took me by the arm and we went to her hotel room. She took of her pants and was wearing a Sponge Bob thong which was so awkward but her body was insane so I basically ignored the whole Sponge Bob thing.
Anyway She had stolen a whole bunch of Kahula minis from the airplane and started pouring them all over her chest and legs. I the fat bastard that I am made sure to lick every single creamy drop of her body and then proceeded to have sex with her for I dunno 30 minutes or so. When I was done she grabbed my arm and said, ..........and I qoute her exact words people, "I know you dont care about me, but could you just hold me for a little before you leave I am so lonely and hate my husband". I thought she was joking and really did feel terrible but I told her I had an early flight in the AM and bounced
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I thought about that a lot, I mean I didnt even know this women's name and here she is married having sex with some stranger and SO ALONE and distant from her marriage that she wanted to have some stranger hold her. How depressing is that?
Point is, after that I said I would never cheat on my wife or treat her like garbage because I would never want her to end up like this poor lady.
So after my women and I got back together I have kept my word and we actually just got married last month
1) that amazing feeling when you first penetrate some strange women
2) that awful awful feeling of shame and disgust you will feel when you pull out and scramble to find your shit and bounce.
One of the saddest things I can remember is one night I was in Buffalo and ended up sleeping with this United Flight Attendant (I was on a break from the g/f) and aftera few drinks she took me by the arm and we went to her hotel room. She took of her pants and was wearing a Sponge Bob thong which was so awkward but her body was insane so I basically ignored the whole Sponge Bob thing.
Anyway She had stolen a whole bunch of Kahula minis from the airplane and started pouring them all over her chest and legs. I the fat bastard that I am made sure to lick every single creamy drop of her body and then proceeded to have sex with her for I dunno 30 minutes or so. When I was done she grabbed my arm and said, ..........and I qoute her exact words people, "I know you dont care about me, but could you just hold me for a little before you leave I am so lonely and hate my husband". I thought she was joking and really did feel terrible but I told her I had an early flight in the AM and bounced
.I thought about that a lot, I mean I didnt even know this women's name and here she is married having sex with some stranger and SO ALONE and distant from her marriage that she wanted to have some stranger hold her. How depressing is that?
Point is, after that I said I would never cheat on my wife or treat her like garbage because I would never want her to end up like this poor lady.
So after my women and I got back together I have kept my word and we actually just got married last month
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im 24. i've always been faithful. at no point have i not been in control and made the mistake of cheating. a few years ago my gf at the time cheated on me w/ one of my 'good friends' at the time... what a shitty feeling. i never want to put anyone through that.
if you're not happy with someone, break up with them. don't cheat. if you're willing to cheat, you really don't care about the person you're with so you might as well break up with them.
if you're not happy with someone, break up with them. don't cheat. if you're willing to cheat, you really don't care about the person you're with so you might as well break up with them.
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Originally Posted by Mike21,Nov 23 2009, 12:53 PM
if you're not happy with someone, break up with them. don't cheat. if you're willing to cheat, you really don't care about the person you're with so you might as well break up with them.
unless you really hate them and want to hurt them but that's rarely the case from what I've seen. most people i know who've cheated were pretty much over their SOs but too lazy/insecure to just break up with them... till they had someone else lined up, of course.