Until you're married why limit yourself?

 

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I have never cheated and dont plan on it i love my gf. Its just that alot of my friends do it and it always gets me thinking like why dose he do it and there relationship is so strong. I agree with who ever said that cheating is a bad thing to do.

 

Cheating it will get you a driver to the head!




^ My name is Cheetah Woods and I endorse this message!

 

Wow Simon Im so sorry that your going threw that your one good person. I hope you make a good decision God Bless you!

 

How is staying with an unfaithful women and trying to save a unhealthy marriage good for the children? Situation sucks, but I know if someone sticks their meat in my girl after marriage, its definitely over! How do you even forgive or forget that?

James D.

 

you dont......

 

Kick her out. Keep the kids. Their mother has deep feelings for someone else. Your sex life will be non-existant or weird and your relationship will never be the same. Sorry.

 

 

Because kids are often bigger than the "marriage". They just want their parents around and as long as the parents are civil, it's still usually better that the parents stay together. If the parents can't get along (ie, not yell and fight) then it usually isn't so good but in the meantime, kids can be quite happy even when the parents aren't.

The fact that the marriage is unhealthy doesn't mean it's not salvageable. It's mindsets like yours that get people divorced instead of actually trying to work through problems.

I would be devastated if my wife cheated on me but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't necessarily kick her out for it. I'm not perfect (haven't cheated, of course) and I know that I'll make mistakes as well so I would just as soon keep forgiveness as a ready and willing option over kicking her to the curb.

I've always been of the opinion that if a spouse cheats, there is usually something lacking in the relationship (ie, there is blame to be placed on BOTH people in the marriage). As such, forgiveness usually needs to be asked AND given by both parties.