1. If you have to ask the question, then it's probably cheating.
2. Be a man, do the right thing.

 

wtf is an "official relationship?!?" Some of you sound like a bunch of third graders who've never even kissed a girl trying to sound worldly :/

 

It can't really get any simpler.

 

Why the debate? You know deep down what is and what is not. It is up to the individual about what kind of behavior they find acceptable.

I cheated on a girlfriend way back in my 20's. Don't feel good about it. Would not do it again.

If someone is good enough to hang out with, but not good enough to be faithful too then I guess they would not be the right person and instead of wasting their time and doing something that may hurt them, it would be better for both to just move on.

 

Well this is common sense to some of us third graders. Do you have conversations about the fact that it is a realationship or not. Liike making future plans. It is a cemented relationship or is it just fly by the seat of your pants? If I'm dateing someone then its just dateing if I'm in love with that person and I know the other is in love with me then we've had some kind of discussion about our relationship. If not then it isn't a real relationship we're just dating. Doesn't seem too complex to me.

 

In my experience, if you do anything physically, that could be limited to just kissing, the female considers it an official relationship. The guy may or may not agree.

 

Oh WOW! I'd have to dump a woman right after I was finished kissing her then. What kind of psycho thinks its a relationship after a one date kiss?