So I was at a party the weekend past with my group of friends. One of my friends brings this girl to the party. They're not an official couple but they've been 'hanging out'. Hours later the dude's best friend is also there too. Anyway the night goes on and everyone's drinking. The dude who brought the girl there passes out. The girl, sorta drunk herself, continues to party. After a few more drinks the girl goes to her dude who's now sleeping on the floor. She sleeps next to him but the dude's best friend comes in and gropes her, kissing etc. He leaves and another dude goes in and goes so far that had the girl not quickly decided to walk out she would've been raped. My friend wakes up the next morning and tells me what happened. He tells me his best friend said he was too drunk to remember and that it wasn't a big deal. Friend #2 who almost raped the girl apologizes profusely when my friend confronted him. So now I've been asked by my friend this:

1. When people are drunk and start getting touchy feely, are they really drunk or just taking advantage of the situation?

2. For someone to do that do you think they had feelings for someone?

3. Is my friend (the past out one) making a big deal about his best friend (touchy feely)?

Your thoughts?

 

1. Drinking lowers inhibitions

2. Not necessarily

3. If the best friend groped this girl and another friend nearly raped her, that's kind of a big deal.

4. Tell your friend not to pass out next time.

 

heh drunk is an excuse and a complete BS excuse. If he says he doesn't remember odds are good he's lying. How 'best friend' is the best friend. I've never been one to believe the line 'the alcohol' made me do it. It's a cop out and an excuse.

Lets be honest, if you want to know the truth, ask how the best friend reacted when you told him what happened at the party. If he was shocked, pissed and embarrassed by what happened then maybe he doesn't remember or at least feels bad about what he did. If he trys to downplay it and say it's no big deal that it's just the alcohol then fuck him, he's no friend, he meant to do it and will do it again.

 

^ my thoughts are with you CrazyPhuD!

 

I'm sure they took advantage of the situation. Poor girl.

 

WTF kinda ppl you hang out with man???

 

Groping without permission, expressed or implied, is off limits.

Messing with friends girl, off limits.

Messing with girl too drunk to know better, off limits.

Kicking friends ass for messing with your girlfriend is fine. No level of alcohol for friends actions is acceptable.

But the guy was kind of a douche nozzle for taking his girlfriend somewhere and getting too drunk to remain concious.

My $.02

 

lol groping unconscious girls is all bad.

tea bagging unconscious guys and drawing penis' on there forehead is all good.

 

Your friend needs new friends.

 

what do u mean poor girl? women should know that guys are like that. if they dont, they're lying to themselves or just naive. sick of hearing about women getting wasted, then claiming that they are victims of this and that.

true, men shouldn't do that, but that never stopped anyone