Drinking and Groping... Your Thoughts?
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Originally Posted by CrazyPhuD,Jun 28 2007, 10:55 AM
heh drunk is an excuse and a complete BS excuse. If he says he doesn't remember odds are good he's lying. How 'best friend' is the best friend. I've never been one to believe the line 'the alcohol' made me do it. It's a cop out and an excuse.
Lets be honest, if you want to know the truth, ask how the best friend reacted when you told him what happened at the party. If he was shocked, pissed and embarrassed by what happened then maybe he doesn't remember or at least feels bad about what he did. If he trys to downplay it and say it's no big deal that it's just the alcohol then fuck him, he's no friend, he meant to do it and will do it again.
Lets be honest, if you want to know the truth, ask how the best friend reacted when you told him what happened at the party. If he was shocked, pissed and embarrassed by what happened then maybe he doesn't remember or at least feels bad about what he did. If he trys to downplay it and say it's no big deal that it's just the alcohol then fuck him, he's no friend, he meant to do it and will do it again.
Your boy's "best friend" is full of shit if he's gonna pull something like that on the girl, especially groping and kissing her passed out which is f uck'd up to a new level. To me, there's an unspoken rule between bros that you don't mess with another dude's "girl" EVEN if they're not together.
Plain and simple it's R E S P E C T for another friend and if he's gonna blame that shit on booze then he isn't the "best friend" he's cracked up to be.
I apologize if my opinion is a little harsh, but I've had a similar experience happen to me and my supposed "best friend." Imma just say if the mug I used to call my best friend crosses the line again I won't hesitate to deck his ass.
Whew....ok, time to go masturbate and be happy again.
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Originally Posted by dyhppy,Jun 28 2007, 01:53 PM
what do u mean poor girl? women should know that guys are like that. if they dont, they're lying to themselves or just naive. sick of hearing about women getting wasted, then claiming that they are victims of this and that.
true, men shouldn't do that, but that never stopped anyone
true, men shouldn't do that, but that never stopped anyone
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this happens All the time here. A l l t h e t i m e . like every single time there is a party or the club comes back to the house. usually they **** and the girl or guy goes, 'i was too drunk i didn't really want to go that far cuz he/she has a girlfriend'
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Originally Posted by esracer,Jun 28 2007, 12:01 PM
I kinda agree with this, let me guess she probably showed up to the party dressed kinda provacatively.
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Originally Posted by prodigy3006,Jun 28 2007, 12:06 PM
this happens All the time here. A l l t h e t i m e . like every single time there is a party or the club comes back to the house. usually they **** and the girl or guy goes, 'i was too drunk i didn't really want to go that far cuz he/she has a girlfriend'
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Originally Posted by dyhppy,Jun 28 2007, 03:53 PM
what do u mean poor girl? women should know that guys are like that. if they dont, they're lying to themselves or just naive. sick of hearing about women getting wasted, then claiming that they are victims of this and that.
true, men shouldn't do that, but that never stopped anyone
true, men shouldn't do that, but that never stopped anyone
I kinda agree with this, let me guess she probably showed up to the party dressed kinda provacatively.
Granted we don't know all the facts, but what exactly did she do to encourage sexual assault/attempted rape? Saying that "women should know guys are like that" and then saying "guys shouldn't do that" seems like kind of a foolish contradiction.
Not personally attacking anyone, just criticizing the statements, that's all.
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Originally Posted by CrazyPhuD,Jun 28 2007, 06:55 PM
heh drunk is an excuse and a complete BS excuse. If he says he doesn't remember odds are good he's lying. How 'best friend' is the best friend. I've never been one to believe the line 'the alcohol' made me do it. It's a cop out and an excuse..
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Originally Posted by wantone,Jun 28 2007, 12:11 PM
SO what does this say about the best friend???
by knowing you can't completely trust them, you then learn to know what situations not to be in around them. aka= passed out with your girl and 'buddies' still drunking around. the situation was a total loss for him and an eventual loss for the girl since she didn't like the touching