Is it wrong to contact an ex if you are married...Not saying that you want this person... what if you just wonder how they are doing... what if its been its been years since any contact has been made....is it disrectfull to your signifanct other to see how an ex is doing......and what if it ended really badly should you just leave well enough alone??? need help

 

Does your wife read this forum?

 

I am a girl and no he does not , but I am not trying to get back with my ex its just that I wonder is he alive is he happy....normal things

 

0days?
do you drive an S2000?

 

no but my ex does......................

 

My wife and I purchased a labradoodle pup from my ex.

and they actually got to know each other and they got along great.

How awesome!!!

 

this is what I would call a "Stalker". leave the past and come live in the present.

 

Better left behind, and just pray that all is right in the universe.

 

Probably better left alone. There's always a bit more to the curiosity, and that could mess with your mind later whether we want to accept it or not. Say he's dirt poor or going through a rough time and then you have feel a need to reach out. Or if you find out he is much happier than you, how might that affect you in the long run? I don't really have an answer to it, but maybe not knowing is just better off.

That being said, I always want to know as well how the ex is doing. But its hard to find out as well and not compare or think what if we had a life together.

Let us know if you contact him, its different for everyone.

Best of luck!

 

I got divorced over this same topic.