pending menage a trois!
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ex_grlfrnd sounds like a

 

If you love your wife don't do it she will not forgive you. If you hate your wife that will get you your divorce.

 

i would love it if an ex wanted anything to do with me. i always try to remain friends,..but some just think once its over,..its over.

you dont spend a signigicant amount of time with some one just to forget about them.....going from "everything" to "nothing" is not right

 

Wow 0-day on the board ex surprised me!

I say no it's not wrong. I'm friends with most of my exes and it makes my life a lot better. The old feelings are gone so just the things that attracted us about eachothers' personalities stick around and that's the best stuff.

I say go for it, but I'd probably preface it with the significant other by telling them you're curious about what the others are doing now that you're where you want to be.

 

IMHO, I say just leave it alone. Its been years as you stated since you have had contact with him. It almost makes me wonder why the need to know unless there is something you still have there for him. You probably dont feel like this but ANY significant other would mostly likely think this...Not everyone can be like Mikey..lol. It would be a total different story though if you've always had contact with him prior to you and your husband getting together and keeping that connection up till now. You know your husband better than we do so you already know off hand if he would be okay with this or not. The fact your asking though, it doesn't seem like something he would be okay with. This is just looking for trouble....big trouble. And not to scare you or anything, but as cjs2k stated, it could be a topic that can cause divorce. I mean you don't gain or lose anything in your way of living if you don't contact him, so why risk actually loosing something(husband). Sorry, I'm just taking it to the worst thing that can happen. Most likely it won't go there but I dont know either.

OK, that's my .02.

 

thanks guys.... I do not think I will contact him...I dnt have a way to contact him anyway....and NO I AM NOT A WHORE.. you IDIOT ...just wanted to know if someone from my past who use to be a part of my life was O.K. .....and yes I dnt think my husband would like it if I contacted him... that is why I asked you guys.....just wondered how he is .....I do not want anything from him and NO there is not anything there any more just the Curiosity of what happen to him .......but I will leave well enough alone..........and what a girl cant be a part of this forum....just b/c she is new to the site...I said my ex has a S2000...and when we were together I use to drive it all the time......I must say it was FUN!!!! ....driving the car that is .......

 

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j/k! Love the one your're with.

 

 

I wouldn't do it without the knowledge of your current significant other. It'd suck if they "found out" that you did it - it'd definitely start some not-so-good thoughts going through their head.