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I'd say do it only if your wife is ok with it. Don't see the ex THEN tell the wife. Also, turn the situation around.. how would you feel?

 

If you really want to get in touch, probably facebook if you had any friends in common. I'm not into this whole social networking as much as some of the younger people, but you'd be surprised how many people that you lost touch with come up.

Maybe worth a try, and I'm just putting it out there although I don't think the benefits of you contacting him outweigh the negative consequences.

 

I THINK I AM GOING TO JUST LEAVE IT ALONE ...MY MARRIAGE IS MORE IMPORTANT .................

 

I think it depends on your husband. I keep in touch with a few of my ex's. We were friends before we were together and i made SURE my S/O knew that I would still maintain that friendship after the breakup. She trusts me and knows I am deticated so there is no issue. If you're going to do this, i would make sure that your husband knows.

 

We should ban this bitch. I hate creepy ass stalkers like her.

My ex-girlfriend use to stalk me on Honda-Tech. She would read my threads to see what I was posting.

 

What amazes me is this chick (or a guy who wanna be lesbo) that doesn't even s2k somehow magically comes onto s2ki board and ask this type of question. This is pure nonsense and not even worth replying. Oh shit I just replied.


IBTL

 

Come on guys...No need to flame. She already said she's not gonna do it. There is no harm done. Everyone has a different/odd issue they deal with. It's sometimes good to get it out so the individual can rationalize from other peoples opinion. It sometimes hard, when you keep it to yourself.

 

man some of you people are F****** nuts just b/c a person does not own A S2000 does not mean that they can not post on here and I am not a stalker my ex is not on this site well I don't think he is... and even if he is I do not know who he is ..... I just wanting some advise and I chose this site b/c my ex was soooo into his car and I know other guys who come on here who have the same car......... thats all not trying to STALK anyone......

 

[QUOTE=ex_grlfrnd,Jan 10 2008, 04:37 PM] Is it wrong to contact an ex if you are married...Not saying that