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friend -> girlfriend trouble... please help!

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Old Jul 7, 2003 | 09:39 PM
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good luck hoonda man!!
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Old Jul 7, 2003 | 09:44 PM
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Thanks Ninh
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Old Jul 7, 2003 | 09:48 PM
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yo man... good luck and just be yourself and get a good nights sleep, hehe.
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Old Jul 7, 2003 | 10:17 PM
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easy way: Ask her to a movie, and if you are such a tight group she'll hopefully ask if your sister or her sister is coming too...then just say..."well,i've been meaning to ask you this for a long time...do you think it could just be me and you this time?" straightforward, though it is not intimidating to her and she's very inclined to respond favorably because it's low-stress(besides, her saying yes is a signal in and of itself)

Go for it, the first time you ask someone out it's rough, but it gets easier(well, never easy for me, but it's less intimidating now than a few years back in the beginning of High School). You know her better than we do, so go by your instinct; does she like flirting and games, or is she more pragmatic and to-the-point? read her...once you learn that, you'll be just fine. just do it, you're young enough that you'll have time to rebound if it turns out not-so-great...but we're pulling for 'ya! good luck!

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Old Jul 7, 2003 | 10:38 PM
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I've always lived by this rule growing up with a little sister:

NEVER GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR SISTER'S FRIENDS, NOR YOUR FRIEND'S SISTER.

Too much involved. IMO.

But do as you will. I'd like to find out what happens too.
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Old Jul 7, 2003 | 10:48 PM
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I agree with HunterEz & S2K_Stylist, don't leave yourself wondering "what if" .... that sucks and you will never be able to answer it .....
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Old Jul 8, 2003 | 05:22 AM
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Better to get rejected than to sit on your hands and do nothing.

Usually you find out 5 years later she had the same feelings as you did, but was chicken sheeeit to do anything about it.
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Old Jul 8, 2003 | 05:48 AM
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ya...id def ask her to a movie or something. having that "what if" in the back of your head sucks. i still wish i woulda hooked up with these 2 girls in high school, but that never happened.
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Old Jul 8, 2003 | 06:05 AM
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Im going to have to go with the group here, ask her out. I would think about where to take her though. The movies are not the best place for a first date. You want to go do something where you can talk to her and interact with her on a date level. True you already know her but if you guys do go out it will be something new for the both of you
Good luck to ya, and please let us know what happens!
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Old Jul 8, 2003 | 08:27 AM
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Get at her before the friend zone becomes too much and she will feel a little weird. Go for it man, all these advices are pretty decent. Try to be straight with her and since you guys know each other, she should know where you're coming from. Good luck!
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