Go get her, if you loose her to someone else because you sat back and watched.......you would never forgive yourself. It would be a lesson learned, but a heart felt one at that and those suck! Tell her how you feel damnit!! Its is very nice to hear......

 

EvoVII, I disagree with your view (but I respect it!) Just to make sure Hoonda sees both sides of the coin.... I want to present my (opposing) view:

Never underestimate these special feelings you have with certain girls. Women are not dime a dozen, especially if you only get that special feeling from only a handful in your life. If you have an attitude like "oh well, there's lots of other girls I can get"... then how can you ever really respect the special ones? To me, the ultimate goal is to find the ultimate love/relationship that lasts forever (which requires mutual respect). To some, they give up on that ideal and they just go with whoever comes along (hence the women-are-everywhere concept) for non-relationships or relationships that aren't quite 100%, which I think is too bad. To others, they don't necessarily give up on that ideal, but they think life has some sort of structured time-line, and that people have to be a certain age in order to start looking for a relationship, which I disagree with also. That's how I see it.

 

Go Hooonda for the millionth time

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by SteveUCI
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EvoVII, I disagree with your view (but I respect it!)

 

looks are not pretty high for me, but yeah, you are right, for many other guys, all they want is sex or blowjobs or something from hot girls. it's sad how girls get used these days too, some guys piss me off so bad.. they just play them. kiss kiss kisss dump get with another girl kissk iski ksiskiskisksikis dump some more kisskisksiksis get another girl -_- i don't know if it's just imaginary or something, but the more and more i like a girl, the more and more you like the way she looks just because she is herself, not some trick who puts on hours and hours of makeup and plays guys the same way most guys play girls. it's almost like their inner beauty is starting to glow on the outside, and the more and more you discover about the significant other, the prettier she gets. i dunno if i made sense here, because i'm truly tired from all this honors english summerwork.. someone save meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeee

 

don't let us down.. or your not worthy of your S when you buy one... you MUST get the girl.. there is no want... there is no going to try... there is no I hope I get her.. there is only.. I will, and you'd better! good luck man!

 

hmm i live just south of you stylist

 

Well, to the above posters, I was just relating it to his personal situation, and not standardizing the "dime a dozen" theory to people who want to build a serious relationship. I'm just saying that how do you know if this person is "the one" when there's so many other oppurtunities to explore, you are young so just have fun, and don't get tied down too quick BTW, you will save yourself a lot of trouble and anguish if you let the girl pursue you.. that's my new take on things... contrarty to tradition, I'm just sitting back and letting them come to me because I have tried your proposed approach, and it might not work.. Personally, I think there is more than one soulmate in life, there can be multiple.. I thought I loved this girl just a year ago (young, foolish love), things went astray quick, and just left me embarassed, but a year later I'm not pondering over the same girl (I still think of her from time to time, they say you always remember your first love).. Anyways, with whatever decision you make, and whatever the outcome, just don't get discouraged...

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by wantone
[B]Hoonda,

 

eh hoonda.. everythings thats possible to be said has already been said... but it sounds like she tried to send you a signal... you didnt respond... so she gave up the notion.... i hooked up with my best friend of 4 years too... i was afraid of the same thing, i didnt want to jeapordize the friendship JUST IN CASE she didnt like me... but it was just killing me inside to know if she felt the same way too... so i just broke down and asked... 7 years later im still with her

so just like everyone said... dont wait till later when its too late (shes with another guy, or too far for you to talk to)... talk to her now... trust me.. if she doesn't look at you in that way, she'll tell you... then no harm done.. back to bestfriends... if your truly bestfriends that shouldn't make things weird...