Hey guys,

Well i didnt even know about this forum until my good friend told me to ask u guys for opinions and i do own a 2001 S2000. I am currently in a very deep whole. The girl i love more than anything cheated on me with a guy i worked with and later told me its over. This happened a month ago and it still hurts like hell and we still talk everyday and now she tells me that she regrets is and that she loves and cant live with me BUT ever since she cheated..all she does is lie. She tells me she wants me but if i call and she wont pick up, i automatically know its because she is with the other guy.
I try to distance myself from her but after like 2-3 days of us not talking, she calls and starts her shit to make me want her again. What's the best way to get over her because as much as i love her and wanted to marry her it will not happen. I am 21 and she is 19..we started dating when i was 17 and she was 15. The worse part is i cant stop thinking about her, its hard..unless i drink. I know there is better girls out there..i really need help. ThanK You..i'll post pics of my S2000 very soon. Glad to join the club.

 

plain and simple if there is no trust then there is no relationship -

sorry that you are going though a tough time BUT it gets easier (trust me) as time passes - Let her go as it's her lose...

 

Dude... this is very simple.
Girl cheated on you... reason number one not to talk to her any more.
Girl is clearly playing you, whether she realizes it or not.

STOP TALKING TO GIRL.

Don't call her. Don't take calls from her. Go out with your friends, have a good time being young, and meet some new girls. Problem solved.

I don't mean to belittle the problem, but whenever someone has a situation like this, they already KNOW how to fix it. They just don't really want to, because they enjoy self torture.

 

What he said ^

 

Sorry to hear this.

You don't want to be with someone who's not grounded. If she really cared and was wired correctly you wouldn't have this problem. It's tough but you have to bail on this one. Heffergm and Bass are right and everyon who post here is probably going to say something along the same lines. Keep looking keep dating until you find a good one.

Good luck and hang in there

 

First off, welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear what's happened to you. I would have to say the best thing to do is to be with your friends. Get back into the routine of hanging out with people without the worries of being tied down. Go out on Thursday, Friday, or Saturday nights with your friends and mingle with new faces. You've already taken the important step of realizing that there is life beyond this girl. Also, check out the Upper Mid-West S2000 Owners club. I'm sure the nice folks out there will have some local meets that you can attend.

 

She's done it once, what's to think she wont do it again?

She broke your trust, you will NEVER get it back again. I tried to get back with someone who did that to me and it's never the same. NEVER!

So use your S to get another one.

 

You're both young and there's plenty of fish in the sea. Probably be good for you to date other people anyways. Good luck.

 

I know it would never be the same, my sister wants to beat her ass..lol..anyways..i know as soon as i find a girl and start seeing her...i will forget about my ex..just takes time. 1 thing that i like about this is....the kid used me to get with her, he used to come to my parties..etc.
Oh well at least i have my gorgeous S2000....and he has a 1999 V6 stang. I was too nice to her, she owns a 2002 Celica and i took care of it , like its mine...ever since we broke up the car is soooo dirty and looks like shit.

 

You're way to young to be worrying about that. I'm only 23 but I dont think you need to worry. Havent you ever seen Swingers?? You just need a nice trip to Vegas. But seriously...once something like that happens to a relationship, things will NEVER be the same. At that point (even though its been 4 years) its easier to start over than it is to fix things. Because things really CAN'T be fixed where you're at now. Sorry but that's really rude of her to do that to you and you do not deserve that kind of b.s. There's TONS of other girls out there...but you're young...so go out and have fun. And dont stay at home, go out driving, go out to a movie, go out and do something with people!! You'll feel much better...sometimes it takes a while but before you know it ....it starts to hurt a little less each day...and then one day...you just dont hurt anymore. good luck man.