Damn man for the lack of a better term your str8 up pussy whipped! *Khhhhwaaahhhtuuussshhh*

Welcome to the chicago crew, even though your not near the city. Once the weather opens up come join us! We'll show you around.

The way i see it, you HAVE to distance yourself from her, stop letting her use you man. She's playing you, and not to be harsh but your bieng a dumbass and letting her (i mean that in the nicest way). It happened to me man, you gotta distance yourself, and just give yourself time to heal. For your sake i hope the weather opens up so u can get out and

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by shift_9k
Damn man for the lack of a better term your str8 up pussy whipped! *Khhhhwaaahhhtuuussshhh*

 

i couldn't have answered it better than what everyone else has said.

that's what makes this place so cool is that everyone's always willing to help. we've all gone through relationship woes, but you just have to know that if she did that to you, you guys aren't meant for each other, so scratch that marriage thing out.

 

Do you mean this: http://forums.s2ki.com/forums/showthread.p...threadid=175010

 

I went through this about 5 months ago and it is a bitch! I dated the girl for 4 eyars and came to realize she was what I wanted but then it was too late. The best way to get over her is really to cut all ties. It is really hard but it will save you time end the end. You're still young, lots and lots left out there. It will come when you least expect and if the next girl sweeps you off your feet you will definately be over the old one. It can only get better, hang in there.

 

That's the one, thanks JerseyGirl

 

How many relationships that start out at a young age like 16 or 17 actually last?

 

I remember that thread.

 

On a lighter note....you think having the S2000 while you're with/dating someone is fun?....Not even half as much fun as when you're single man....

Cheers,
Mike

 

Uhm... I don't post here much but uh, I went through the same situation 3 months ago... Funny thing too is that I am the same age as you and she is the same age as your ex.

Heffergm is exactly right. You know how to solve the problem but we all love self torture... We all love to feel sorry for ourselves and bask in self induced agony.

You have to just let go... I'm sure she's still your friend and all but you either have to start seeing other people and stop f*n her or you just need to cut all ties from her... Its easier that way. I'm sure you don't want to get back with her because you can't trust her anymore but you can't exactly forget about her either because of all the time you spent with eachother. I'm sure you don't understand how she could have done that to you and how you would have never done anything like that to her... That's about the worst thing your significant other could ever do to you... And so... you're lucky you found out about her true character as soon as you did and I'm sure you know you can't marry someone like that so don't even trip and forget about her. You're still young, you have a S, you have more money now, you're single, you still have your friends and the rest of your life to find someone that deserves you and will treat you better than she did. So let go and move on.

On a lighter side, I figured out what to do with the money I saved from not spending on her... I'm in the process of piecing together a turbo kit for my mr-s . I'm spending on the one mrs that will always treat me well...