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G/f of 4 yrs,cheated..help needed

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Old Feb 19, 2004 | 01:20 PM
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Originally posted by VTECS2000
yeah im mighty pissed off today. the school had a fundrasier auction. they sell buys to carry around your books and do shit for you and they do the slow dance thing with them at the valentines dance on saturday. so she went without me and bought the biggest meathead in school. im pretty pissed off and upset. now she will probably make him beat my ass. oh well im gonna go drive fast.
worst time to go drive fast. you getting a ticket would make things worse. you getting in a wreck, even worse. you killing someone, and all this b.s. she did will pale in comparison.
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Old Feb 19, 2004 | 02:02 PM
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Originally posted by VTECS2000
yeah im mighty pissed off today. the school had a fundrasier auction. they sell buys to carry around your books and do shit for you and they do the slow dance thing with them at the valentines dance on saturday. so she went without me and bought the biggest meathead in school. im pretty pissed off and upset. now she will probably make him beat my ass. oh well im gonna go drive fast.
yeah, but is HIS CAR as nice as yours?...............
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Old Feb 19, 2004 | 03:13 PM
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shes a get over her already and no need to drive fast, but if you must put the top down and give her a big smile.
4real though bro you need to jus forget about this girl and let it go she come crawling back they always do when they know they're in the wrong.
ain't that right ruby give the kid some advice.
anyway i dont know the female senario out there where you live but here in CALI i can go for and drive and see so many BEAUTIFUL WOMAN that'll make me forget about my EX. its as simple as that. -ONE
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Old Feb 19, 2004 | 03:34 PM
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Originally posted by Marc one
anyway i dont know the female senario out there where you live but here in CALI i can go for and drive and see so many BEAUTIFUL WOMAN that'll make me forget about my EX. its as simple as that. -ONE
seeing the beautiful women doesn't help. dating them helps. balling a couple can help too.

but really, the only way to really get over her is to MOVE ON with your life. get focused on yourself-- improving yourself, accomplishing things, etc. and don't even think about shit like, "Oh if she could only see me now, look how much I've done..." blah blah. don't even think about what the ex would think. she doesn't matter. for all intents and purposes, she should stop existing to you. totally purge your life of her. that's the best way.

and I cannot speak highly enough about using this extra time to get yourself in better shape physically. by improving your physical well-being, it does wonders for you psychologically... and other women will pick up on your new-found confidence. no girl is going to want to get serious with a guy who is still crushed, on the rebound, and probably just looking for rebound-sex.

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Old Feb 19, 2004 | 03:54 PM
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Very very true. When stuff like this happens i dont get angry I get depressed. I didnt even drive that fast. I did a doughnut though in a closed golf course's parking lot. that made me feel better until some 12 year olds threw a snowball at my car while i was driving but they missed. Anyways..... it is not like she is going to date the guy or have sex with him it just upset me as to why she would do this. And of course she went through the "it was a mistake thing".There is one more thing i need some advice on. I have has this friend who is a girl, her name is kaleigh, and she has been my friend since I was like 2 or 3. My girlfriend feels "threatened" by her, now what should I do about that. But I have one thing that i have thought about that she told me "Tommorow is another day, another day to strive for perfection" Well I am going to do some chemistry.
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Old Feb 19, 2004 | 04:24 PM
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sorry to say this buddy but trust is number one and sounds like you need to move on just my opinion , if you decide to try again good luck cuz your a better man than I am
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Old Feb 19, 2004 | 04:41 PM
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my bad. believe me, i didn't mean jus looking at them cause what good does that do. i meant to pull them in aswell and have some fun. thats what the single life is all about until you meet the right woman.
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Old Feb 20, 2004 | 11:10 AM
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I had a girl I had been with almost 5 years do something like that to me when I was in my mid-20s. It happened with a friend of hers who actually stayed with us for a few nights while he was in town (and shook my hand as he left to go back home!), and it turned out they fooled around while I was at work. In retrospect I'm sure that wasn't the first time they got together. It hurt like hell and I didn't eat but a couple of times during the following few weeks. At the time all I wanted was to get her back somehow, I couldn't see past her. I suspect you are stronger than I was -- it sounds like you are smart enough to try to stay away from her -- but I feel your pain.

Hang in there man ... try to keep in mind that you are young and there are other relationships to be had. Try not to dwell to much on it, obviously you aren't going to forget right away (probably never) but give youself time to get over it; try to somehow deal with it in small pieces instead of all at once, if that makes sense. Friends can help a lot in this regard.

You should remember the good things from the relationship, but don't let that sucker you into rebounding back. If you *ever* think about getting back together with this girl, you must first honestly ask yourself if you can deal with what she did with you, which basically means letting go of all the resentment, completely -- not something most people can do (myself included). Otherwise it will be a ticking time bomb. You'd also have to find a way to trust her again -- also no easy task if not impossible. The best thing to do is to rule out that possibility for the foreseeable future and stay clear. Do your damndest to move on.

Date some other girls when you are ready; rediscover your friends and yourself. Don't think about marriage for a while, keep things simple. Hope this helps.
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Old Feb 20, 2004 | 11:12 AM
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Today was the day he walked her all around, and i saw them walking and she was laughing and so was he and i left school. me and my buddy went and drove around. i dunno tommrow is going to be the worst watching her dance with him, ill prolly just leave and go drive around with some other friends, because thats all we have to do here in Ohio (hell) well i am gonna change the oil.
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Old Feb 20, 2004 | 11:16 AM
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Originally posted by VTECS2000
Today was the day he walked her all around, and i saw them walking and she was laughing and so was he and i left school. me and my buddy went and drove around. i dunno tommrow is going to be the worst watching her dance with him, ill prolly just leave and go drive around with some other friends, because thats all we have to do here in Ohio (hell) well i am gonna change the oil.



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