Getting out of CC debt..
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From: Apex NC
Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jun 14 2007, 05:44 PM
We are in it together.
Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jun 14 2007, 05:44 PM
Im not going to sell my toys because not one penny of that CC is mine. Im not giving up the things I work hard for for that. Especially because she hid it from me until now.
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We are together as in living together. The whole $4,000 on a walmart discover card I had nothing to do with..
Why should I sell my toys that I work hard for for that CC?? So I can be out something that I enjoy and STILL have nothing to show for that $4k?
I dont think so.
Why should I sell my toys that I work hard for for that CC?? So I can be out something that I enjoy and STILL have nothing to show for that $4k?
I dont think so.
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because you care for her and your future together. But if you don't care for her then by all means make her suffer for her "sins".
are you SURE that $4k has nothing to do with you? Food, lightbulbs, detergents, toothpaste, etc are commonly bought at Wallymart.
Lastly, looks like you're living paycheck to paycheck. Even without this CC debt, it's not a safe way to live financially.
are you SURE that $4k has nothing to do with you? Food, lightbulbs, detergents, toothpaste, etc are commonly bought at Wallymart.
Lastly, looks like you're living paycheck to paycheck. Even without this CC debt, it's not a safe way to live financially.
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From: Apex NC
Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jun 14 2007, 06:18 PM
We are together as in living together. The whole $4,000 on a walmart discover card I had nothing to do with..
Why should I sell my toys that I work hard for for that CC?? So I can be out something that I enjoy and STILL have nothing to show for that $4k?
I dont think so.
Why should I sell my toys that I work hard for for that CC?? So I can be out something that I enjoy and STILL have nothing to show for that $4k?
I dont think so.
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From: Eugene, OR
Originally Posted by rbackhouse,Jun 14 2007, 04:10 PM
With this attitude you are not in it together. Doesn't look like this will be a long lasting relationship. So either cut your losses or make some sacrifices like selling some of your toys.
boys boys boys.
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From: IM SEXY
Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jun 14 2007, 03:18 PM
We are together as in living together. The whole $4,000 on a walmart discover card I had nothing to do with..
Why should I sell my toys that I work hard for for that CC?? So I can be out something that I enjoy and STILL have nothing to show for that $4k?
I dont think so.
Why should I sell my toys that I work hard for for that CC?? So I can be out something that I enjoy and STILL have nothing to show for that $4k?
I dont think so.
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From: Columbus
Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jun 14 2007, 08:57 AM
Her getting another job is not really a feasible option. She works 5 days a week as a hair stylist. Her working another 2 would just make our townhouse look like sh!t inside and I wouldnt have a cooked meal.
And wtf are you thinking sharing accounts with a girl you aren't even married to? And if you are thinking about marrying her sell your little bike, pay off her debt and never let it happen again. After that, instead of paying minimums, make her put $250 a month away to buy your bike back (pay cash when you have all the money saved, not on credit). Or better yet, go buy something that isn't a depreciating asset.
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i would advise her pay the minimum. then get 10 more credit cards. go on a super shopping spree buying as much crap as she can handle. finance some new flat screens and then file for bankruptcy.