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Old Dec 1, 2004 | 01:24 PM
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Rob, don't let this girl waste any more of your time. Call her out on it & just ask her what her intentions are. Let her know that you won't be playing these games.
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Old Dec 1, 2004 | 01:29 PM
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Welcome to woman. She's just a flirty friend. I have them to. No hopes of relationship. The drunk thing might work a few times, but dont expect her to fall in love with you in the morning.
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Old Dec 1, 2004 | 01:37 PM
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I say tie her up with a drop cord and put her in your closet. In time, she'll learn to love you.
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Old Dec 1, 2004 | 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Rickjames,Dec 1 2004, 12:27 PM
Just be warned that the as shole game shouldnt overused--some girls dont like guys who are just flat out cocky and jerks. But on the other hand, girls dont like meeting guys who would instantly drop everything and become their bitches. Anyways--keep doing what you are doing because it seems to work.
This man is onto something. He's obviously done his homework.

On the cocky jerk comment remember the key is to be 50% cocky and 50% funny. The combination of the 2 can lead to great results.
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Old Dec 2, 2004 | 04:38 AM
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Shes playing games, so you can either keep playing and risk getting played in the end or call her out and move on.

BTW, hows everything Rob?
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Old Dec 2, 2004 | 04:51 AM
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Originally Posted by VoIPA,Dec 1 2004, 03:58 PM
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DEAR GOD, MAKE IT STOP!

Can we create a separate relationship forum so people who know better than to take relationship advice off the Internet don't have to see these posts?

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no one asked you click on the tread. next time ask your mom before posting.
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Old Dec 2, 2004 | 05:04 AM
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how about some pics????
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Old Dec 2, 2004 | 05:44 AM
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Rob, back in the day, when I was dating, or tryoing to date, I had a number of women friends like this. Some women are more touchy than others and touch to guys means something different than it does to women. Watch two women interacting. They're are much more hands on than two men are, at least in mainstream US culture.
IMHO, she sees you more as a "girlfriend" than a "boyfriend". (Please don't take offence at that, it's no impunity on your manhood.)
Also, don't listen to the "get her drunk" crowd. Apparently they've never heard of the concept of date rape, which the law sees as rape, and labels you for life as a sexual offender.
You need to decide if you can remain friends with this woman or if your physical attraction is too strong. If it is, back yourself off, look around for a woman who is more into a physical or deeper emotional relationship.
I don't think you have the proverbial snowball's chance in hell with this woman.
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Old Dec 2, 2004 | 05:48 AM
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The answer to most questions about women is "She is a nutjob." Seriously. Men have lots of issues with being insesitive, self involved, blah blah blah, but 90% of women are just plain goofy. They need medication.

Sounds to me like she might just want a good roll in the hay.

I'm sorry, what was the question?????? I just gave the standard "girl trouble" answer.
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Old Dec 2, 2004 | 07:10 AM
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If she rubs you again. Just tell her "don't start something you can't finish...", it sounds like a dare and it had worked for me several times.

Women like challenges

Oh yeah, about the "get her drunk" advice. I meant impair her judgement to the degree that she is ok to have some fun with you. Of course, it will be done with her full consent. It is totally legit.

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