Hmm... This seems strangely familiar to my life. There was this girl in college I liked and she flirted with me, so eventually I started asking her out to lunch or movies. She'd go, and we'd have a great time. One day, I gave her a kiss on the cheek good-bye, and she gave me this, "I just want to be friends- I'm already seeing someone" line (I'm like WTF- why didn't you say something earlier?). I said okay (heartbroken), and I stopped calling her up and asking her out all the time. I still saw her twice a week, as we were in the same circle of friends, and was nice and talked to her whenever I saw her. However, I started flirting with other girls in the group, even discussing plans on getting together with them and doing something (such as having a back massage party). After a month or so, this made the first girl really jealous, as she realized that the guy she was dating was kind of a jerk (he was in the same group too, but they didn't display any type of pda when I was around, so I didn't know.) She started calling me up a lot more often and asking to come over to my place to hang out. After a week of her calling me up about every night, I couldn't take it anymore with her flirting, so I just went ahead and kissed her. I was shocked that she responded really well, and later said that she was waiting for me to make a move. Evidently, she had broken up with the other guy and was trying to get together with me. Almost 5 years and two diamond and gold rings later, we're still together, and happy about it.

My advice is be a friend, but keep your options open and see other girls (even bring your dates to parties she'll be at). If she likes you, she'll get real jealous, as she wants what she can't have. Make her have to work for you, not the other way around.

 

OP: get her drunk, hit it IDB and dump her

 

 

Treat her like $hit. Stop returning her phone calls. Find other dates.... She will only want you more then!

 

It's quite a paradox....Personally, I haven't met too many women that I have really "Liked". However, I once starting dating this girl that i actually liked, but she started acting weird a few weeks into it. We broke it off and afterwards I really didnt care for her anymore. After I broke off all contact with her she wanted to reconcile and get VERY serious. By this time I was soured and wasn't into her anymore. Thats life.

 

lots of good suggestions in this thread but do what you feel is the right thing.

what worked for others may not neccesarily work out for you. people talk about being the "a$$hole" type and then you'll have girls flocking to you. it doesn't really work like that from what i've seen and experienced. just don't be a pu$$y and do what YOU feel like doing, you are the MAN of a relationship and make decisions for yourself.

 

Hey RoBD305

Very important question: DO YOU KISS HER?

(Edit: Ignore q: Sorry mate, got you mixed up with another thread where somebody's getting sloppy seconds ....)

 

Haha...aren't relationships and women so interesting?