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Just try to keep your chin up... you don't know for a fact that he was living with her while you were dating, for whatever that might be worth.

It's just like everyone has told me a million times in my thread- once someone hurts you that badly, you just need to turn and run as far away as possible. It's going to seem painful and nearly impossible in the short term, but it won't take long once you've made the honest choice to let them go from your life and emotions. The biggest mistake I made was assuming there would be some point of closure... a movie-scene goodbye, a reunion that solved all the problems that broke us up, or just a phone call where we'd both at once admit we still loved each other. The thing is, the longer you hold onto that little bit of hope that you can fix the place this person has in your life, the slower you move on.

You can always find someone better... maybe they won't have the same qualities your ex had, but they can have many more he didn't- trustworthiness included.

Hope you feel better.

 

Thank you OC.

But dude, this is gonna affect me hard....

Ive only had 2 relationships that lasted longer than 2-3 months.

The first one - my guy was a cheating whore. It took me 3 years to recover from that one and start dating again.

And this one........... since I loved him...... Is gonna be harder.

Im ****ed. Im not going to get over this for a really long time.... and even if I do - the next guy I date will probably be a lying piece of sh*t as well..... =T

 

Sorry to hear that.

It's the same with guys as girls.

There's guys you date and there's guys you marry.

 

but you live in Nigeria. How can you work it out with a person in Burbank???

 

raj - I dont know....... I am done with guys. Im either gonna go lesbo or be a spinster with 30 cats. Seriously. Probably spinster though since girls are crazy in the head.

s2020 - LOL. I used to live in L.A. and now live in OC. I just chose Nigeria for a location since I love scammers.

 

Ok this is what I call the baggage circle and it totally F-ucks the potential for real and meaningful relationships because someone is always hooked on someone who is hooked on someone else who is hooked on someone else and it goes on and on and on. The primary reason this happens is people fail to take action on the signs that this is not going to be a healthy relationship! In short, we always want what we can not have, or is always just out of reach. When does the game and cycle end? Well thats up to you, but you can not change or make someone else break their end of the circle, just gotta move on. But if you like drama and heart break, then by all means, continue the baggage circle.

Many of the clients I see for relationship trouble spot all very similar patterns and symptoms, if you continue to meet the same type of people that seem to pull the same stunts, then its time to look into another type of person instead of someone that resembles the one you fell soooo hard for and who broke your heart.

Spend some good time being single, hanging with friends, and occasional dates. Tell the dates, you would like to remain dating, but as a friend. This will reveal alot to you about who they are and what they really want. Well i guess its elementary from there, but I hope you recover from this and go on to meet someone who appreciates you.

 

So weak. One word: KARMA.


Go out for a few booty calls and then forget all about it. Get back on the horse and open your mind and heart to your real True Love. He/she is out there somewhere...

Forget about that POS and move on. Life is short.


Peace!

 

Kyushin - You are completely right. There were signs. Everywhere. But I blinded myself from them because I didnt want to face the truth. I just wanted to be with him.

Hoot - Yeah. I may just do that. And seriously - I hope Karma gets him.

 

[quote name='Kyushin' date='Mar 19 2007, 10:39 AM'] Ok this is what I call the baggage circle and it totally F-ucks the potential for real and meaningful relationships because someone is always hooked on someone who is hooked on someone else who is hooked on someone else and it goes on and on and on.