hard to get girls..........
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Originally Posted by meth,Jan 26 2006, 10:14 AM
don't tell them what u do for a living because it is not exciting. is it possible to say you are a doctor with confidence, that might get you somewhere.
And here's the kicker. I used to have a really bitchin' job. However it was bitchin' up until the point they realize I didn't make 
doing said bitchin' job.Ok, so that weeded out the gold-diggers. Fine. Then they realized that my bitchin' job wasn't quite as romantic as they had originally thought. All the while, I've now wasted 20minutes to an hour talking to the wrong girl.
Keep it short, keep it simple. Don't mention your job. It's all about them. . . or, you at least make it seem that way.
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I'll admit it, when I met this dude at a bar in Denver back in August and he told me he was a scientist and just finished attending a conference on Cold Fusion I was like, "greeaaaaaaatttt." But we didn't talk about his job, we talked about Denver and Boulder because I was interested in possibly moving there, and he turned out to be a nice guy...and very informative.
The job question seems to be almost regional. In the midwest where I grew up it generally wasn't brought up into the conversation for a while. Here in the DC area it's like the first question people will ask you, which seems very rude to me actually. It's as if people want to make a quick judgment about you before they "waste any more time."
Now that I'm aware of this attitude, I will only chat with people who DON'T ask me what I do for a living right away.
The job question seems to be almost regional. In the midwest where I grew up it generally wasn't brought up into the conversation for a while. Here in the DC area it's like the first question people will ask you, which seems very rude to me actually. It's as if people want to make a quick judgment about you before they "waste any more time."
Now that I'm aware of this attitude, I will only chat with people who DON'T ask me what I do for a living right away.
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Originally Posted by YellowS2kPwr,Jan 24 2006, 01:33 AM
Well, good question. With your car, I want to say that it kind of makes them wonder if they are good enough for you... so they tend to stay away more and wait for you to approach them. I've noticed something similar. When I used to drive my Stealth TT, they weren't so shy, as soon as I started driving my 350z and s2000, now all the do is just talk to each other and smile but wait for me to approach. I don't know how much this will help you but I know what you mean.
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From: Chicago
Originally Posted by iRkennethMe,Jan 27 2006, 08:54 AM
i totally disagree the reason why is that.... the girls think your soo hot (acutally the car is hot) they wanna have a 3 some ( if not 10 some ) with you and her girlfriends. but its only a 2 seater so they get discouraged and not talk to you.
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I wont give a girl the time of day if she hits on me while Im in my car. Ive had my share of gold diggin slizzles and for fun n games its all good but for relationships its not. If im around in my hometown I say no to gold diggers but if im out on a field trip then its all for fun then Ill give them some time
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