Tomorrow I'm taking a girl I am keen on out for lunch.

I'm not particularly shy or anything like that it's just that I'm used to meeting girls that crack onto me or I crack onto in nightclubs, parties etc. This makes me somewhat rusty at taking a slower, more indirect approach.

My history with this girl is as follows:

She is a flatmate of one of my car buddies, who introduced me to her at a nightclub. We chatted briefly that night but it was way too loud and she was with several other friends. I asked my friend about her boyfriend status and she said that she was seeing some guy.

Two weeks later the three of us and another friend went to the same nightclub. We chatted more. The other friend told me that she told him that I was a nice guy.

The week after that she got my mobile phone number off my friend and SMS'ed me asking me if I wanted to go out with them saying it would be nice if I was there. I joined them for a fun but uneventfull night. That night I also found out that she had just broken up with her boyfriend. The only hint that she was keen was that she asked me if I wanted a suck of her lollipop I agreed it was strawberry. Her and the other guys left early. About five minutes later I SMS'ed her asking her out for lunch. She replied saying " Sure thing, I'll call you on Monday".

She called me today and we had a nice chat and I agreed to pick her up from university.

The thing that has got me confused is that it has been a very slow buildup and am not used to this. I'm also pretty bad at making the first move should i go ahead and just make the move or wait? Also what kind of a place should I take her to? I know a few really nice romantic, scenic restauraunts but I don't want to appear to be too keen.

I'm sure everything will just fall into place but I just need some advice.

i guess I'm just paranoid.

 

She:

Got your # from a friend.
SMS YOU to ask YOU to go out
Offered you a SUCK of her Blow Pop
Broke up with Boyfriend

I don't think you have to worry about making a move.
It'll all fall into place

 

Be romantic and be "Keen". As I say to ALL my single friends, "You know when you have a keeper when there is no talk between either of you about if "these" is going too fast." See because, when too people are crazy about one another they BOTH crave as much attention as possible from each other! If the going "too fast" conversation is brought up when dating, often times they don;t feel that same way about you as you do toward them.

Wine and Dine her!

 

Thanks for the advice


You forgot to mention to 69her