I have a serious question about me and my girlfriend. I have tried using search engines yet all those come up with are porn sites which is not what I'm looking for. It's kind of a weird question to ask on a car board, but I have read some topics on this board and this board seems to have the most mature people. Anyway, here's the story.

Me and my girlfriend have been "experimenting" lately, we haven't done anything we've never done before. We have yet to have sex yet. We stick with everything else like foreplay and stuff. Today I engaged in using my finger to please her, (sorry i can't think of better terms for these). This is not the first time I have done it, I had done it before. Note that she is still a virgin. We think it's too early in our relationship for us to engage in sexual intercourse. Well, it's not like I have a very large finger or anything, in fact, my finger would probably be as big as a tampon would be. Although, today when I did it, i was going in very slowly, and all of a sudden i felt her clench her muscles, and then she said it hurt. So i took it out slowly. I asked her if she was ok, she said she was fine, but she didn't want it anymore. I asked her what kind of pain it was, she said it felt like she was hit by something inside. She had never experienced the pain before. After that we stopped. About 30 minutes later she said it hurt again, but only for like a second, then it stopped, and never hurt since. Then later today, she was taking a shower, and she said that a little tiny bit of blood came out. She's not on her period yet, so that's not what it was. But this has never happened before. I'm really worried I may have broken her hymen, but I don't see how I did, because I had done the same things before, and if my finger could break it, can't a tampon? If you must know me and her are both 18. I would appreciate some responses from anyone with experience or knowledge on this. I don't want to hear about how we shouldn't be trying stuff at such a young age etc. I mean we're still virgins. Thanks guys.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Temps2k
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but did i break it completely? I dont know how it works really. I'm hoping that there's still something there. I've also heard that if I really did break it, there would be a LOT of bleeding. I don't know. I don't understand your response, so did i break it completely? or just damage it a lil tiny bit? or is that not possible.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Temps2k
[B]but did i break it completely?

 

Hmm, she said it was very very little. So i guess she's fine. She just says we shouldn't do it for a while now.. atleast 2 months.

 

btw, Thanks shamu

 

No prob -- but I would seriously consider seeing an OB Gyn. This way, there's no guess-work and "hoping" that problem has gone away for good...

 

well its not really a problem.. i mean its not like she's cheating on me or anything. I'm going to be the one to "break it". We just chose to wait for a while. We haven't been going out for a year yet. It's been 11 months. We figure atleast until she's in college.

 

Fingernails??

 

nah i cut em yesterday.