To all the nice guys that posted. I suggest you listen to LEYKIS 101.

 

Did you just call me an ass because I want to have money coming in before I start a family so I can give my kids/wife the things they have always wanted?

 

This is the same as me. My friends dont know me to be a dick. Im one of those guys that are nice 95% of the time. Im always joking around and making people laugh. Im hoping that before, during or even after college that I will meet the girl for me.

 

Why don't people PM me sooner when this shit crops up (again and again and again. . . )?!?!?!?!

Let me preface THIS by saying I used to be the most miserable son-of-a-bitch in existence. Clueless and willing to please.

I wasted my late teens and early 20's, and there's no excuse for any of you douchebags to do ever do it again!!!!

Alright, listen up:

FIRST: Rabbi vtec9 is dead on. Your mission, if you have anything hanging in your scrotum, is to bang as many women as possible. Young, old, thick (but not too. . . ), thin, whatever. Use a condom.

SECOND: You don't want it to be a game, but they make it a game. Given that, enjoy the game. When you don't want to play games, then don't. . . just don't. Don't whine, don't complain. . . just stop.

THIRD: No relationships until you're ~25 or so. You don't know what you're doing with the rest of your life until then, so why let a woman come into your life and tell you how to lead what should be YOURS?!?!?!

FOURTH: If you do anything, pay attention to brotherlouie. Tom Leykis singularly got my balls back. Caveat: listen for a while before trying anything; there's more there than meats the eye (read: ear).
http://www.tenetsofleykis.com/
http://www.blowmuptom.com/

The OP had almost the right philosophy, but the absolutely WRONG execution. The trick here, is to be polite, conduct yourself with excellent manners, but be ABSOLUTELY DISMISSIVE of the targeted woman.

She wants attention. You have attention to give her. There's your leverage point to begin negotiation. Are you an absolute rude sloppy jackass? No. Are you going to dote on her and listen to her every word? No. It's a balancing act. However, if you go in thinking you have no power over her, then you don't. You hold ALL the power in the situation, whether you know it or not; it's yours to assume.

Guys, I can be shameless and brazen with the best of 'em. If you guys know what I look like, what I do for a living, and who I fundamentally "am," you wouldn't believe that I could get my share, but I do. Simply put; I know the score BEFORE the game starts. . .

 

 

Nice post ^^ So what should the correct execution be in the situation?

 

 

8D just helped a lot of S2Ki-ers out with that post. /thread

 

Well, she pissed you off (though the reasoning seems ludicrous) and you ICED her. That's the right thing to do. If she doesn't behave by your rules (or at least reasonable rules); walk.

Based on how you ran around in your high heels with your song and dance to us, I'm beginning to think you have no idea what you want.

If you actually liked this chick, well, your situation is probably 75% blown. If by some minor miracle, she calls back, just speak plainly about your situation:

1. You're under 25.
2. Your priorities are towards school/career/etc.
3. You think she's "alright" (don't use anything more flattering than that), but that her rambling on and on about her rules gave you the wrong impression.
4. Given #3 here, you just need to know, are you ready to go out and have a good time, or do you want something else?
5. If she complicates or stammers on number 4 here, just tell her, "It was a simple question about a simple date. Thanks." Then hang up.

All that said, you burned the bridge so badly you have no leverage until she calls back. . . if she calls back.

In the meantime, call one of her friends and pork the crap out of her. If the friend asks, just tell her, "She seemed alright, but we didn't quite hit it off."

 

I'd love to apply this logic to my situation. If she wasn't leaving town tomorrow to go back to college, I would bang her hot younger sister.... twice.